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  • Deb

    Reply Reply May 28, 2015

    Fabulous video!!

    • jackie

      Reply Reply July 2, 2015

      great tips to things you tend to forget, especially the one where you know your a great catch, and your a high valued woman!

    • Ella

      Reply Reply November 4, 2015

      amazing video! lotsa logic behind the ideas, so down to the point!
      great job, Adam 😉

    • Cathy

      Reply Reply November 7, 2015

      Luv the video!

    • Patricia

      Reply Reply November 24, 2015

      Good advice but a bit idealistic for me considering I am 67 years of age and have “seen it all”. People in my age group tend to take it for granted that you have lead a great life and are fulfiiled. I have also been on my own for 38 years with romantic interludes in between (one nearly got to the altar) so it is an entirely different kettle of fish for me.
      Australian men are afraid of an intelligent woman so that has made things hard for me (no pun intended). However I will value your advice as I am seeing someone and he is wary and scared with two divorces under his belt. It is also a long distance relationship (900km apart). Wish us luck!

      • Suzyq

        Reply Reply May 4, 2017

        Patricia, I agree. Generally speaking, these male-generated dating coach websites aim at the younger generation who are still trying to find their way through the difficulties of finding husbands. Now, we focus on what is really important in life: living without a man and being happy. Sure, we agree that we would like to have an end-of-life, ’til death to you part companion, but we also know the population in our age range is skinny to none, and narrowing more as we age. And, I might add, if we find available men, they are either working through their anger because they are divorced; angry or disillusioned because they are lonely; prowling, depending on their needs and age; or, not emotionally available for new relationships and moving forward with their lives. I’m 65, and saw this reflected at gyms, at church, and other places, like work. They WANT something better, but the bitterness, or their behavioral patterns that caused the divorce in the first place, are barriers to finding new love and a new life. They are also sometimes finishing raising kids, or trying to let go of their adult children. Empty nest syndrome for men. We, as older women, must learn to accept our singleness, learn to know ourselves in this stage of human development, and then find someone who has done the same. I have so much on my plate, a platonic relationship is more rewarding.

    • Patricia

      Reply Reply November 28, 2015

      Thanks Adam…

      Very well done, and should work for all ages. I’m 75 y/o and newly on the dating scene, learning a lot from all age teachers like you. Especially liking this module on Emotional attraction. All the best to you.

      • lisa

        Reply Reply August 9, 2016

        Age does have its challenges. However I’m aware of websites that target senior citizens, people 50 and over, people in their 40’s and so on That being the case there has got to be as many men around in their 60’s looking for love as there are women. .

    • Theresa

      Reply Reply December 6, 2015

      I stop following the principles shared in this video because I didn’t want to be alone. Now I am involved in an emotionless relationship.

      • Amy

        Reply Reply October 2, 2016

        I’m sorry, I had to laugh at this comment. I fell into the same trap and am being treated like I’m an idiot. I know my guy is playing in several ball fields. My self esteem is at an all time low for not following these principals. Honestly, I’m just not ready for a committed relationship. Hopefully I’ll at least commit to using these basic steps and find the right man for me.

    • Kate

      Reply Reply December 11, 2015

      Your totally right. Really like his presentation style and I can visualise myself in the moment with his advise. Thank you!

    • Kathy

      Reply Reply February 3, 2016

      Great principles. Can see alot of ‘Why men loved bitches’ in them. Only one small criticism, women don’t like “dominant” men. Perhaps ‘capable’ is a better choice of words. Otherwise enjoy your work. Best of luck to yourself and all us women out there! 🙂

      • Zari

        Reply Reply July 9, 2016

        These are great reminders and the principles did resonate with me also and I too found that the word “masculine” and “dominant” were being interchanged to mean the same thing. You’re right Kathy that the word ‘capable’ or even ‘responsible’ would highlite the meaning of masculinity further. “Dominant” sounds like someone controlling, or possibly an ego centric personality. Masculine energy is easy to pick up on married men specially…there’s a subtle confidence and contentment that exudes sexiness. I’m not a home-wrecker, but it’s how I’ve been able to differentiate between what I am learning I like in a man I want to date vs the ones I want to avoid.

      • Beth

        Reply Reply July 17, 2016

        Some of us love dominant men. I personally prefer a dominant man. Dominant for me has no connotation of controlling.

        • Leah

          Reply Reply October 3, 2016

          I agree with Beth

      • Leah

        Reply Reply October 3, 2016

        I like “dominant” men, I just don’t like the jealous, overly possessive, and overbearing ones. . I believe there’s a difference

      • Joni

        Reply Reply October 23, 2016

        Dominant means superior. As in “my team dominated the game”. It does not mean controlling. Controlling, in my opinion, is the unhealthy version of a man trying to be dominant. To me, dominant equals competent. To submit means to yield to a more superior opinion. So I agree, most women want a man they perceive as more competent (or dominant) unless she is controlling. So the challenge for a smart highly competent woman is finding a man she believes is even more so!

      • Sallyjane

        Reply Reply February 6, 2017

        I understand your thought process, but there is nothing worse than being in a relationship with a man who doesn’t have the guts to stand up to you and say, (for example) “No, I don’t want ______.!” Then whine and complain because you went forward in a direction that he didn’t want to go, but went along anyways. Non dominant men can be perfectly capable, but week in the spine. There is nothing worse than a passive aggressive man. When Adam is talking about a Dominant man, he is talking about a man who is comfortable in his masculinity, and willing to speak his truth. He isn’t afraid to say, “No, I don’t like that idea. Here is why…” He is not talking about a man who is dominant in an abusive way. I can say that because he tells woman to stay away from those types of men. A man who beats a woman into submission is not a strong healthy man, he is a self centered ass who has to have his own way and will hurt people to get their own way. A Strong masculine/dominant man is someone who can appreciate an independent woman, and isn’t threatened by her, but also knows his own worth and won’t stand for being walked all over by her.

        Capable is someone who can bring home a check and possibly a good check, but may not be able to speak his mind, or might be afraid to stand up for you because he has no spine. All capable means is that he can perform certain tasks.

        • Brenda

          Reply Reply March 11, 2017

          I am a dominant female .I guess that’s why my 2 marriages have not worked. I was raised to be strong and own it! Unfortunately I tend to find men who want to be controlled and the you lose respect. I want a real man but I don’t think they make them anymore.

    • libby

      Reply Reply March 17, 2016

      that is great advice and i love your enthusiasm when giving these principals over….
      I am just after a divorce , im 30 and i have two little kids…id love to follow the advice about developing my own life ,but right now my kids are my life, yet i seek romance, -yet i dont have a life…so i feel not at my highest level of attraction…
      any ideas?

      • Saundra

        Reply Reply May 13, 2016

        Being a woman who puts her kids first is definitely one of the signs of a high value woman. However your needs matter also, which is why it is great that you acknowledge that you want romance and need ideas about how to get it. The happier you are the more you can give to your kids. Good luck girl, I hope you find an awesome guy.

      • Roksana

        Reply Reply May 18, 2016

        Hey Libby

        I am 38 and have two kids also. Like you my kids are my life and I wouldn’t have it any other way. Lots of guys out there are scared of starting some thing with single mom’s and that makes it even harder….but you know what? We are awesome….and a guy out there will see it and appreciate it.

        I want romance too but in this day and age its thin pickings. I don’t go out much either but I never really have. Do you have some support (I have my parents)? May be ask for some help with the kids and do things for yourself, even if its for a few hours a week. Feel good about yourself and be content ….romance will come.

        Good luck to us single mom’s….just remember we are awesome! 🙂

      • Angela

        Reply Reply April 22, 2017

        Advice: don’t wait til your kids are grown. I’m 50 now and my kids have been my life for nearly 18 years! Read, research, go to seminars and at least sink that kind of time into your life!! Now! Little by little it will help and you will show up the way a great man needs you to show up!! Much harder at 50!! Try looking up Allison Armstrong! Her workshops are awesome!! And you can do many of them online

    • vanessa

      Reply Reply March 22, 2016

      You are so genius, Adam 🙂 <3 Thank you so much 🙂

    • sherrita

      Reply Reply April 12, 2016

      Awesome, can’t wait for more,I’m learning so much thank you!

    • Adia

      Reply Reply June 21, 2016

      Awesome advice.
      I think aspects 5,6 and 7 apply to me the most. I’ll probably mainly focus on those.

    • Marlies

      Reply Reply June 24, 2016

      Hi, this video is really wonderful. Thank you so much.
      I could go on forever listening to it and I am learning a lot concerning men and partnership.

    • D

      Reply Reply July 2, 2016

      Awesome.
      Makes sense. Love the video to the point.
      D

    • Katie

      Reply Reply July 29, 2016

      All the video links you send me, don’t work. When I click play, it doesn’t play. I can’t even watch your videos. Can you fix it?

    • sherry

      Reply Reply September 6, 2016

      Great reminders!

    • joanna

      Reply Reply September 10, 2016

      Hi Adam, I like this video a lot coz u give me great tipes to help me mover forward . Thanks great job Adam☺😉

    • Susan

      Reply Reply October 8, 2016

      Great video. I need more clarification of 6..if you want to attract guys guy show him more famine side. I’m accounted in my profession. The type of men I’m attracted to like minded are at rime intimodated. Please provide clarification and tips about this one

    • Jane

      Reply Reply October 24, 2016

      You remind me a lot of Brendan Burchard. Thanks for the insight.

    • Rumbi

      Reply Reply October 29, 2016

      Great video thnks Adam:) i have a question though how does the 21st century woman rdiate her feminity its soo hard you know….i find myself feeling like im compromising just cause he wsnt as masculine!!!!

      • Angela

        Reply Reply April 22, 2017

        Same question! Eager to learn!!! I’m 50 and do not want to spend 10 more years trying to figure this one out

      • Angela

        Reply Reply April 22, 2017

        How do we correct #6

    • Wendi

      Reply Reply November 17, 2016

      I feel like this is motivating me to at least try and have some sort of plan moving forward. I’m afraid, plain and simple. However my loneliness is beginning to outweigh my fears after six years if being single.

    • Aymat

      Reply Reply December 2, 2016

      Wow!!!!! Totally awesome video , thank you .What an eye opener. Here I believed something was wrong with me. Nothing i did was ever enough or right. But loving me is going to be first from this moment on.

    • Tila Peterson

      Reply Reply December 5, 2016

      loved your video..i am older and. Am discovering alot about the techniques that have changed..I am approached alot by younger men..so I need to know my confused for now emotional needs..you are directing me..thank you.

    • June Powell

      Reply Reply December 8, 2016

      Great tips. I agreed we women should value self as we are special.

    • Alondra

      Reply Reply December 9, 2016

      I love it

    • Judy williams

      Reply Reply December 13, 2016

      Great video

    • LaTonia Houston

      Reply Reply December 20, 2016

      Thanks Adam, Principle # 3 is what I need to work on.
      I am always trying to let him know that I am ready for a relationship. I call him, he may call me back .
      I am going to slow down . I will let him call me. I will go out more. I will not always be so available.

    • Becky

      Reply Reply December 25, 2016

      I believe this was just what I needed to hear today. Thanks

    • Nonto

      Reply Reply January 2, 2017

      Sho I’m blown off my mind

    • Tina

      Reply Reply January 8, 2017

      I agree, definitely worth watching!

    • Babette

      Reply Reply January 8, 2017

      I really need to work on my self to be more confident..had a few changes in life and need to work on that by doing the thing I enjoy not stress thanks for the video reminder

    • Kimberly

      Reply Reply January 19, 2017

      Great reminder to put self care self interest and your confidence first! Then you get what you create in your own life.

    • Liz

      Reply Reply February 15, 2017

      Thank u so much for sharing such good info i getting on the right road now.

    • Nicole

      Reply Reply March 6, 2017

      So far on line dating is not working for me, but I do have hope that I will meet the right man at the right time in the real world, and until then and on ward I will put into practice what your teaching.

    • Sarasue

      Reply Reply March 7, 2017

      This video really touched home. Thanks for getting me thinking again.

    • Catherine Carew

      Reply Reply April 8, 2017

      I would like to thank you for so many treasure nuggets, like saying I have to have a life of my own, not to put my life on hold because I am dating a man.

    • Angela

      Reply Reply April 22, 2017

      Ok. This video was great! Combines all the principles I’ve seen here and there in other similar statements on line about how to get this relationship stuff right. I had my heart severely broken 18 months ago. I knew I caused it because he was really kind, handsome and in to me! I. I totally blew it with principles #5 and #6. I’m an architect and used to be in charge and having to assert myself all day long 7 days a week. And I’m Italian. And I’m a Scorpio. Yikes. I have some work to do. I want very much to re-attract this wonderful man, hoping his heart will be open again to me in the future!

    • Angela

      Reply Reply April 22, 2017

      Ok ladies help me with #6. I’m the architect. Woman in mans field. Gotta learn to shift gears and stop directing and advising before 8:00 and after 5:00…would love any advice!!

    • Allinah

      Reply Reply April 30, 2017

      Very nice video..for sure it will helps me a lot..I’m single and still looking for a partner…for sure I will learn many things from your videos…..thank you

    • Elizabeth

      Reply Reply June 1, 2017

      Great advice. I especially like the principals of having a great life, being independent and valuing yourself. Those are things I do possess fortunately

    • Debra

      Reply Reply September 22, 2017

      It seems I have a wonderful life & I am independent to a fault.

    • Shawna

      Reply Reply October 10, 2017

      #2 for me!! I am a natural giver and tend to pour everything I have into others, ESPECIALLY a man I am interested in.

      I have been working on this as part of my personal development, and this really just solidifies that I can still cares but not give all of me in the process.

  • Alexa

    Reply Reply May 28, 2015

    The biggest thing that I have taken from this video is that I need to truly believe that I am a high valued woman. I’m completely into sports and I know a lot about them. Most guys find that intimidating and I see that they go after more feminine girls that play dumb I guess when it comes to sports. I thought I will only be a “friend” girl. But I find that it wasn’t the knowledge about sports but the way I virwed myself that made them turn away. More confidence in myself and who I am has attracted more guys that I ever thought. Thanks Adam!!

  • CorA

    Reply Reply May 28, 2015

    Loved this. It’s encouraging and down-to-earth. My challenge is the radiating femininity part. I’ve been independent all my life, aggressive at work, and have a very masculine mindset (chalk it up with growing up with 2 older brothers). The bonus side to this is that, I’m not needy. On the downside, because of my masculine energy and my neglect of my feminine side, I don’t really know if I’m missing out on the best part of life.

  • Janis

    Reply Reply May 28, 2015

    Idea #1 resonated with me. I have a productive and social life, but I not sure what types of activities a guy would interpret as incredible. I have a wish list that I’m looking forward to including more into myrecreational life. Is that what you mean or being superwoman?

  • kimly

    Reply Reply May 28, 2015

    Awesome video, I love it I never thought dating is the hardest topic ever. Have so many rules, but it a good thing to know what men really want from a woman.

  • Dolores

    Reply Reply May 29, 2015

    Hi Adam,

    Just want to say thank you so much for having such interesting videos. This is another great one filled with good information. I’m not single, but I still enjoy watching the videos anyway, because I think that even when you are in a serious relationship sometimes a person can become complacent. So in that context, I think the rule that applied to me most was rule number 1! Remembering to keep having a wonderful life outside the relationship, and allowing my significant other to do the same is what I need to focus on right now in my life. After a while of being with someone you can end up losing your identity, and sometimes it seems like you become less of who you are just to please the other person rather than becoming more of who you are. I guess you have to know yourself really well in the first place, and although that sounds really simple to say or maybe very obvioius, I wonder how many people out there do exactly what I’m talking about while in a relationship. You get too comfortable or complacent. If things don’t work out, guess what you are back being single again. So I think that much of what you talk about can be applied to both single people and to couples who are themselves two single people who have decided to be single together 🙂

    Again thanks for all that you do, it keeps me thinking about how to improve myself even at my mid-age. Yet having said that I still have a very long way to go!

    • Michelle

      Reply Reply April 15, 2016

      So very true! That is exactly what I’m doing watching these videos, while being in a relationship.
      (Definitely don’t want to be two single people living together.)
      I actually stumbled across one of the videos by accident and my love for learning and love for the man in my life, made me keep watching.(and I mean video after video.) ?
      I’m just trying to make sure I keep this relationship wonderful!
      Thank you for posting your comment.
      Best of luck to you, Dolores!

      Adam please keep sharing amazing insight, and very realistic examples!
      Love it!

  • carie

    Reply Reply May 30, 2015

    Hi,
    I am a newly single mom. New to this dating. I was in a bad marriage and I want to not screw it up again. Losing myself in a relationship. So I started googling about dating and found your videos. They are very helpfull. I have learned new things and they affirmed something I thought I should do for myself. So thank you

  • D

    Reply Reply June 3, 2015

    GREAT VID

  • S

    Reply Reply June 6, 2015

    It s so true. great video.
    However currently i have a bf. so..I wish i could know how to attract my boyfriend emotionally deeper. Please upload videos for the women who are in relationship as well.
    thank you!

  • a

    Reply Reply June 8, 2015

    nice

  • j_mills

    Reply Reply June 10, 2015

    Hey Adam!

    Great motivationall video for all levels!! Totally boosted my confidence…even more!!

  • A

    Reply Reply June 10, 2015

    Adam it was So Great !

  • A

    Reply Reply June 10, 2015

    It seems that always it’s self steam that matters…

  • Joy

    Reply Reply June 11, 2015

    Adam.
    Excellent advise, dating can be scary, but your information is making it seem more simple and safe. I attracted in the past a real loser. I see now why I just didn’t see my self as a high value women, which I am.

  • Arsinoe

    Reply Reply June 14, 2015

    Awesome video! You put all those confusing stuffs together in a very precise way. I like the last point most because I think when I put a high value on myself and set my boundaries for relationship, it will be lot more easier to open up to others in a friendly way.Which will eventually turn me into an easily approachable person but not someone easily attainable. Very helpful advice. Thank you.

  • Linda

    Reply Reply June 15, 2015

    I am widowed 3 years ago from a 21 year marriage and it is tough out there in the dating world it took a year to just find a person fun and who likes being the man in the relationship, I have left the pace in his hands we see each other one day and evening a week and he plans the date and lets me know 2 days ahead of time, he was a perfect gentleman from the beginning open the car door for and closed it, treats me as a valued woman respects me. I mentioned it would feel great to spend more time with him. This week our usual date night is Sunday to Monday I leave by noon he has things he needs to do also, but we were going to do Sunday hang around the beach and Monday take ferry go explore another place neither of us have been. I talked to him Friday night and we confirmed plans he said he will call me Saturday but I got a text saying I hurt my back may not be in a very good mood tomorrow. I asked how he hurt his back he said working out. Well one thing about me is my memory is top notch and being an auditor 5 years of my life I pay attention to detail and have great recall so all week he mentioned swimming and fast walking no gym. He said we would not do much but he wanted me to come and see him, I said ok. I was getting ready and I packed a small bag and got a dog sitter and was ready to go and 15 minutes before I was to leave he called and cancelled, threw me for a loop although I said ok I will make other plans to do something I was still disappointed. I am at a loss as to handle this from here. Please do some videos on new relationships and how to handle these types of senarios, I do not know whether to even contact him or wait for him to contact me.

    • T

      Reply Reply August 9, 2015

      Hi, Linda,

      Fun and a gentleman, too. Sounds great. If he’s a true gentleman, he will be getting back in touch with you! Keep yourself busy with your own wonderful life in the meantime. Desperately chasing him down will not make you attractive to him. Quite the contrary.

      How many weeks have you two been going out (on Sundays?)? What happens with Fridays and Saturdays? One of you working? If you’ve been seeing each other for more than 4 to 8 weeks, has there ever been a discussion about what each of you is looking for in life? Has there been any talk of exclusivity? If not, don’t go getting paranoid, but don’t go thinking you are the only one in his life. If he says he hurt his back working out, don’t go imagining things. However, if your gut or intuition are sounding an alarm, YOU might want to take a step back from your emotional investment in him. This does not mean you stop communicating what YOU are feeling. Don’t withdraw. You tell him you were disappointed that he cancelled on you, that you were really looking forward to your time together, that now you’re wondering if you two are really going somewhere. Let him respond. See how he responds. Then listen to your intuition. And keep watching Adam.

    • Lisa

      Reply Reply September 26, 2015

      Linda–

      Whoever told you not to be paranoid is correct but don’t ignore your gut feeling. To be honest with you, the first thing I thought when you mentioned he had lied to you was that he is two-timing you.

      Trust your instincts and BE CAREFUL!

      • Amy

        Reply Reply October 2, 2016

        I have a gut instinct monitor. When the gut gets turned inside out and I want to throw up, I try to run as far and fast as possible. If it’s just sex I want, then I’d better accept his behavior and keep looking like they do. That’s an empty feeling with a different kind of loneliness. Damaging your self esteem. Mother yourself with love and protect your heart. Meanwhile, buy something sexy and Google, how to dance sexy for your man, and practice being confident in your skin. This isn’t for your present guy. It’s for yourself and Mr. RIGHT!💃🏻

    • Dianne

      Reply Reply July 19, 2016

      Hi Linda,
      Sounds like he isn’t being honest with you. Honesty can mean different things to different people. You deserve better, leave the situation before you get more deeply invested, and ignore your instincts.

  • Christine

    Reply Reply June 16, 2015

    Made me really think I definitely have been going about this all wrong! Thanks for inspiring me & so many other women to think differently to help us find out way thru the dating world!!

  • Olya

    Reply Reply June 16, 2015

    Hi Adam,

    Thank you for the awesome video. Those are indeed pretty common mistakes we all make at time. And think subconciously we all understand that we shouldn’t do this. But that doesn’t keep us from going further along this track. Think the main question here is “How to?”, e.g. How to understand that you are investing too much and where is that limit to stop? Cause I know many both women and men who are natural “givers”. And if they love someone, they” give their all and then some without expecting anything in return. And yes, ending up sometimes alone and “sucked out”. Guess would be nice to have those “How to” videos in more details on each of those principles mentioned. Be waiting for more from you 🙂

  • Mary

    Reply Reply June 20, 2015

    I know I have an incredible life without having a man because I did my homework. But I also have a child who is physically disabled. That’s enough to make men run for the hills, which is good, because it weeds out the artificial ones in a natural way. My former husband couldn’t accept the disability himself and would punish me in so many different ways – withdrawal of affection, of sex, of support, humiliating me professionally, you name it… it took me 7 years to leave the marriage and rebuild my life again. He kept me away from my daughter for months even after successfully divorcing him, just to make sure I don’t get any form of affection. It wasn’t easy getting back on my feet again. So now I need an emotionally intelligent man who can handle life. That’s a tough one Adam.

  • Mary

    Reply Reply June 20, 2015

    btw I found you on youtube, in a thumbnail (not google) looking for pilates videos, I don’t know how you turned up, but I’m glad you did! 🙂

  • Fotini

    Reply Reply June 20, 2015

    Thank you so much Adam!!! <3

  • Vicki

    Reply Reply June 20, 2015

    Love this video looking forward to the next one

  • Tara

    Reply Reply June 21, 2015

    This totally makes sense. I have to remember the importance of maintaining and developing personal interests once in a committed relationship.

  • Fatima

    Reply Reply June 22, 2015

    i learned new things about men and their minds thank you adam for the video it means to me a lot

  • Isio

    Reply Reply June 22, 2015

    Excellent Tips Adam. Great vid 🙂

  • Barb

    Reply Reply June 23, 2015

    I need to BELIEVE in my sexiness!
    I just starting dating a new guy. I’m 55, he’s 43.
    I’m a bit nervous about my body, as 2 kids and plain o Gravity has done its thing.

    I need to believe I am beautiful, just the way I am!

    Thank you,
    Barb

  • Rina

    Reply Reply June 24, 2015

    Superb!

  • Arlena Anger

    Reply Reply June 25, 2015

    Thanks for this great video. It gave me a boost on not giving up.
    You are an engaging speaker and you brought back hope 😉
    I had to rebuild my life after a bad relationship, so your observations
    are greatly appreciated!

  • Val

    Reply Reply June 28, 2015

    I need to work on not investing in him as much as I am investing in myself. When I find someone great, I am a loyal cheerleader but if it is not reciprocated, I internalize it and beat myself up which can really sabotage all the great things I have going on in my life instead of taking the unappreciated energy and investing it back in my life.

    • Lulu

      Reply Reply February 29, 2016

      I get you Val, when I’m in love and it works well I don’t count how much i’m putting in the relationship. It happens that I notice i start getting less and i try to treat it by giving even more or by trying to speed things up 🙂 I’m sure you can see the results that come.
      It’s great to become clear that MY actions and behaviour shape how he feels about me, more than leave it to fate to work things out for us 🙂

  • Dee

    Reply Reply June 29, 2015

    Loved the video!!

  • Riza

    Reply Reply July 1, 2015

    Thanks Adam! this video helps me to be more confident!

  • Adriana

    Reply Reply July 1, 2015

    Really enjoyed the video… 🙂

  • Wanjiru

    Reply Reply July 2, 2015

    I enjoyed the video……. I now have confidence in myself and I can now correct the common mistakes.. Thanks Adam!!!!!

  • Wanjiru

    Reply Reply July 2, 2015

    I enjoyed the video.I now have confidence in myself and I can now correct the common mistakes. Thanks Adam

  • Pauline

    Reply Reply July 2, 2015

    I really enjoyed the 7 principles – I am still unsure if it is okay in the beginning stages to ask a guy out – say to a sporting event? Do I have to let him do the asking? I am 49 years old and still have no idea what I am doing??!! LOL

  • Bridget

    Reply Reply July 2, 2015

    1, 2 & 3 were very powerful for me to hear! I’ve been going about it all the wrong way! No wonder I’m having such a hard time in my newest relationship! Slow down, remember who I am & value myself, my time, my extra-curiculars & be independent! ALL things I was doing when we met 3 months ago & then my focus became him…..NOT GOOD! Thanks Adam, this has truly awakened me & I look forward to your next 3 videos!!

  • Carrie

    Reply Reply July 3, 2015

    Adam is a genius, I’ve been watching his videos for a few months now. I need to work on having a life of my own. I was married for 16 years, so learning how to be alone is hard for me.

  • Jennifer

    Reply Reply July 4, 2015

    Hands down, #1 is the main thing I need to work on. This video was amazing but now I know I have a lot to work on. After watching this, it makes me worried I’ve completely ruined the chance I have with a guy I’ve been talking to. All I can do now is work on myself now.

  • Estefani

    Reply Reply July 5, 2015

    Hi Adam!

    First off I want to say is, Thank you!
    The first principle, Loving your life with passion with your dreams and goals, really stood out to me. This definitely made me realize that you can’t be happy with a guy, if your not happy with your own life. You should work on that before you decide to work out in a love with a guy. It’s all about balance.

    Grazie!

  • Melinda

    Reply Reply July 5, 2015

    This is a awesome video, so helpful.

  • Sheila

    Reply Reply July 8, 2015

    Thanks – was very helpful!

  • Kim

    Reply Reply July 9, 2015

    It was hard to watch…my inner voice is very loud and strong. I need to Value myself more and stop basing my worth on if men like me or not….because…according to you….if I think I am a catch….I soon will be……hmmmmmm.

  • Tracy

    Reply Reply July 11, 2015

    WOW!!!! Awesome! Just simply awesome. Great insights in this entire video! Completely changes my view on the whole dating world and how I treat and feel about myself as a woman! This is GREAT, GREAT STUFF! Thanks a ton, Adam! I AM A HIGH VALUED WOMAN!!! 🙂 #HighValuedWoman

  • Kim

    Reply Reply July 11, 2015

    Great stuff!

  • Joann

    Reply Reply July 12, 2015

    This was a great video and love every section of it. I think for me the part of investing alot into him when he is not investing time in me is what I need to work on! I always give 110 % of myself and I like treat him like he is my King. And you are right if a person does that why should the guy do anything else. There is no challenge for him! It’s hard because he knows no matter what I will always come through for him. Lesson learned! Yes I need to print up this information and read it every day so that I can follow it!

    • lily

      Reply Reply September 16, 2015

      Simply and well put Adam…one cannot love someone else if they don’t love themselves first coz they’ll have no love to offer that special someone.Therefore,am sure what I’ve learnt from your video is to maintain my dignity as a high valued single woman and not investing more time,energy and resources into a guy than I’d invest in myself.Then I’ll be able to attract an equally high valued guy from a place of abundance instead of looking for a guy to complete me or fill up the void or emptiness inside of me.Therefore self-worth and happiness come from within us rather than seeking it from others.Very inspiring video Adam! Keep it up!Am yet to apply the principles in my life practically…coz thinking about them and taking action are two different things altogether…:)

  • Mary

    Reply Reply July 12, 2015

    Enjoyed the video and agreed with your principles- Common Sense but can be easy to forget in the dating world or when you have a strong attraction to someone else. #1 resonated very strongly with me I agreed with your principles- good reminder.

  • fouzia

    Reply Reply July 13, 2015

    The first time i saw adam in youtube i thought he ‘ll be like all the other coaches playing with words and making no result i’m glad that i was wrong he is really amazing special person , and his ideas and informations helped me a lot so thanks 🙂

  • Melody

    Reply Reply July 14, 2015

    I found the link to your video while browsing my Facebook feed and decided to give it a look-see. I am glad I did! Your principles really aren’t new to me, but the way you present them, is. I really appreciate what you are doing and the time, effort, and experience you put into this program. I am really finding it interesting looking back at past relationships I’ve had and the blunders that occurred. I know that my confidence tends to lie in my work and that setting. I work with the public and enjoy it. I know how to engage people from that standpoint, but am a bit more shy in a strictly social situation. I need to translate my confident work persona into a socially confident persona. I think that if I can decide on a hobby that I am good at, and use it in a socially advantageous way, I might be able to gain the confidence needed to project that desired image. Thanks! Can’t wait for the next video!

  • Liz

    Reply Reply July 17, 2015

    From a technology standpoint, I wish you could make these work on mobile browsers. I have an extremely on the go lifestyle and spend most days at work either traveling or on a PC for work purposes. It would be so great to be able to utilize down time in transit to listen to you speak on these topics without having to be tied to a computer to make it possible.

  • Cherann

    Reply Reply July 17, 2015

    I think #2 is the one I need to work on the most.
    I tend to want to invest all that I have to give into all my relationships and that hasn’t gone over well in the dating world.

  • Lauren

    Reply Reply July 17, 2015

    Where I come from dating more than one person at a time is not that common at all so I tend to forget to take those blinders off that you spoke about to show myself and my potential partner that I have other options and that I am a high value woman whos exclusive attention and devotion is something that needs to be earned. Also great advice about pursuing your own interests and passions prior to being in a relationship, it’s important for women to remember to maintain their individuality…..interesting people are those who go out and do interesting things. Thanks for a great video with great advice I look forward to the rest to come.

  • Kayla

    Reply Reply July 17, 2015

    Great advice! Look forward to the next videos!

  • Meichelle

    Reply Reply July 18, 2015

    This is probably a really good video.. But I could seriously do without 10 plus minutes of telling us who you are.. Jump into it already lol

  • Tasha

    Reply Reply July 18, 2015

    I believe I am a high value woman with tons to offer but where I lack is having a great life.
    Don’t have much going on in my life but I love to learn new things. I have a tendency to take on whatever interest he has just to fit into his life. I enjoy learning whatever it is but it never turns romantic. I get knowledge but not a companion.

  • Sue fornace

    Reply Reply July 19, 2015

    I really enjoyed the video.I have to
    Work on my personality.

  • Shannon

    Reply Reply July 19, 2015

    The thing that I need to focus on the most is having an incredible life. I am the first to admit that my life is very boring and stagnate. I know that I have a lot to offer but I use the excuse of being a single mother ( and the fatigue that comes along with it) to deny myself the chance at a fulfilling life. I do not have a strategy for dating so I completely gave up. This video has helped me see that if I use these principles I can get back out there and live my best life possible. First without a man, then with one without being NEEDY.

    Great video Adam,
    Thanks.

  • Andrea

    Reply Reply July 22, 2015

    #2 is the hardest for me. I am an analyzer and a giver.” Not to invest more than he does” is quite challenging for me, has always been.
    Andrea.

    • April

      Reply Reply November 26, 2015

      mine too…
      drove many men away this way and I never got it,how can a loving,tender,honest,giving,good,smart,feminine can drive a man by loving him?
      We need too make them work for it..

  • Malissa

    Reply Reply July 23, 2015

    Divorced for 7 years now. I have spent that time raising my girls and creating an awesome life!
    Ready to start dating again. Great info. Thanks

  • Greta

    Reply Reply July 23, 2015

    Great video #1! The principles are like de ja vu. I know my biggest issue is lack of confidence. I have a wonderful life…I haven’t waited for a man to complete my life or to make it interesting, eventful, fulfilling, etc. I have difficulty knowing and embracing my value. I didn’t even understand the question you presented, “Are you a high valued women?” Sad, sad, sad! Well, I want to embrace my value and exude confidence. I am lovely and lovable.

    Thank you very much! On to video #2!

    Greta

  • Sonia

    Reply Reply July 28, 2015

    Great Video Adam.
    I too have practiced so many of these principals for many years however, after being a widow for now 7 + years I’m wrestling with the fact that I’d like to have a life companion who is worthy of me and my lovely girls. That being said my challenge is yeah I don’t have a problem meeting men. My GF’s have a nickname for me when we go out as I’m that gal that will always have guys approaching me and my girls. Yeah I’m a great wingman or wingwoman for both sexes too! The problem I have is with people being worthy of me long term. I need to be able to discern who in this world is actually of a caliber worthy of augmenting my single life so much that they make it better for me not to be single. Sadly I think what lesson I need to learn most was the fact that men have to earn my love and affection and not just give it away so freely. I’ve had the love of my life where this came naturally but we were both big on autonomy. I’m not clingy and needy by nature but to me it comes down to trust and respect issues. This is where I often find the biggest challenge as I have high standards for myself and I find that I get disappointed when the men who approach me don’t have the same for themselves. Frankly, I refuse to lower my standards to meet the needs of those who won’t even consider raising theirs for a successful relationship. HELP!! Please they’re has to be a better way.

    • Fatima

      Reply Reply May 8, 2016

      I can almost relate to this. I lost a lot of my self confidence after a personal issue but now I was almost shocked into gaining it again. I usually do find that men don’t hold as many high values as I do. I am not a player even though I have the looks. I love simplicity in life but I also have high aspirations. Not fame or money, but general life success. Plus I have strong opinion on good moralities, doing well to others, and an extend of religious values. I find it hard to find a man like that. A man who is a MAN. Maybe it’s because I’m still young. But it seems that men nowadays avoid responsibilities, taking actions, and fixing issues. I noticed from the video a few things I did wrong. But also, I think why do men lack motivation in working things with women anymore??

  • Destiny

    Reply Reply July 28, 2015

    I love this video! The fact that the emphasis on loving yourself, taking care of yourself and valuing yourself is SO important! Thank u
    You for taking the focus of attraction away from being a “game” and putting it on living a “lifestyle” that is good for me and ultimately great for a boyfriend to have in his life!

  • Ting

    Reply Reply July 29, 2015

    Thanks for all the interesting ideas

  • Olivia

    Reply Reply July 31, 2015

    Thank u so much☺☺☺…It’s hard to choose actually;but really great video and direct to the point information.More power to you Adam.☺

  • Tamara

    Reply Reply August 1, 2015

    Oh boy I am only 23 years old, and dating is really difficult. I’ve learned some things on my own but It’s nice to hear from a man some really good advice. I think the one big thing I need to work on is #2. When I like someone a lot, I tend to give them more of my time. And I can’t stop thinking about them, and where exactly this thing we have is going. I know the kind of man I want, but I feel that it is so hard to find him. Working through improving some things in my life right now, but I know that doesn’t mean I should stop looking and dating. And I definitely don’t want to just settle. Thank you Adam and can’t wait to see your next vid! 🙂

  • Sedny

    Reply Reply August 3, 2015

    hi
    actually the video is not working give me reset connection
    please i want to watch it

  • Kat

    Reply Reply August 3, 2015

    Awesome video thanks for emailing this to me! 🙂

  • Sheree

    Reply Reply August 4, 2015

    I think this is a great video and opens my eyes to so many things. I need to work on being friendly and open to meeting new guys. 🙂

  • Isabel

    Reply Reply August 7, 2015

    You are great, love your energy

  • Katie

    Reply Reply August 9, 2015

    Enjoyed this. Came at a synchronistic time. I need work on 5 and 7. 🙂

  • Treva

    Reply Reply August 10, 2015

    Very informative video. Can’t wait to hear more!

  • Melissa Flach

    Reply Reply August 10, 2015

    Good logical advice. I’m 50, twice divorced and can tell that past abuses have left me feeling “not valuable”. Not sure there are very many men my age who are single and interested in a relationship.

  • clara

    Reply Reply August 11, 2015

    thank you for the video and the 7 tips – really gave me some solid things to think about and work with.

  • Kathy

    Reply Reply August 16, 2015

    It’s hard to pick just one because for me 2 and 3 go had in hand. So I’m working on dating more than one man at a time and slooowing things down. Thanks for all the great advice.

  • Cindy

    Reply Reply August 18, 2015

    Well done…I just got out of a 10 year relationship and ready to date again and came across the youtube vids. I’m not casual about dating so slowing things down may be hard, but if keep in mind the other principles I think that will make it easier and more intuitive.

  • Marge

    Reply Reply August 25, 2015

    Hi Adam,
    I consider you a straight shooter into the male psyche. But I just wanted to add something
    here about my own experiences with men. First, men are people. Maybe I think and feel differently but when meeting a man for the first time, I do not rely too much on looks, status, etc. I want to know them as a person and when I do that I notice that men are relaxed and will talk more openly. Of course, I do joke and tease a lot while getting to know him, but if a woman can get the guy to relax and enjoy himself in the moment and not worry about the “future” or being competitive with him, chances are he will want to see you again. You are spot on when you state that a woman has to let the guy know he will not be rejected…..and there are many kinds of rejections. I have found just to be kind and considerate to them as people, not just focusing on their maleness, always works.

  • Judi

    Reply Reply August 27, 2015

    The video was very helpful because I have just gotten out of a two and a half year relationship with an emotionally unavailable man. I am looking forward to the remainder of the series

    • margie

      Reply Reply February 17, 2016

      Great video with a lot of male insight..but also a lot of old concepts.. we all have to love our selves before we can love others.

    • margie

      Reply Reply February 17, 2016

      Great video with a lot of male insight..but also a lot of old concepts.. we all have to love our selves before we can love others.

  • Alana

    Reply Reply August 30, 2015

    This is AMAZING. PERFECT. Exactly what I needed to hear. 40 years old and although all of these principles are logical, and I’m a logic based person, I need to hear and be reminded of. I am a “strong” female and working on that and using my strength to let my light shine out is the most powerful for me. I dated a lot of “potential, I didn’t want to judge to quickly, give them a chance, but I’M DONE. I am SO worth a good man, I deserve it and now I just need to go out there with these principles in mind and engage.

    I was so scared of looking easy if I wasn’t a bit guarded, but I’ve been told that I was hard to approach, all my friends think I get asked out al the time because not only of my looks (I’m no super model but I’m good looking) but I also have a great personal lifestyle and I make it my own, I live for me and I make people work for it BUT I wasn’t letting my femininity radiate as it seems, it’s a tough juggle and balance with a spirit like me, but it’s doable. TOTALLY DOABLE, I just need to believe it. I need more tips on how to be more feminine, what that looks and feels like. I’m not a big flirt at all, I have a tough time doing it but I’m very loving, caring and smart but that’s not feminine necessarily.

    THANK YOU for these, I needed this. Yet AGAIN, you lay it out straight forward, no BS.

    • Lisa

      Reply Reply September 26, 2015

      Wrong, Alana–

      Being loving, caring and smart are very feminine features and just the things a REAL man is looking for. Be true to yourself and you will find Mr. Right.

      Best wishes.

  • Nevita Wynter

    Reply Reply September 1, 2015

    I love it and you are a genius so thank you.
    This is definitely going to help me in the upcoming future

  • Jovana

    Reply Reply September 2, 2015

    “Be easy to approach and hard to attain”! That’s it..best advice, tnx a lot 😀

  • Tawanda

    Reply Reply September 9, 2015

    Great advice. PS. You are hot! Adam.

    • April

      Reply Reply November 26, 2015

      I agree 🙂

  • Sona

    Reply Reply September 10, 2015

    This is great. Adam, you know your job professionally and I like your tips. They are realistic and easy to understand and implement. Thank you and waiting for next videos unpatiently

  • Jennifer

    Reply Reply September 11, 2015

    Hands down the best video I’ve seen on the web about dating, for free! The interesting thing is the 7 tips are all things I knew already, and realized that scouring the Internet for the “key” was silly. I already have all the tools I need… I just needed to be reminded of them. ❤️ Adam, you’re the best!!!

  • Bridie Leigh

    Reply Reply September 13, 2015

    This was great information,thank you

  • Kathy

    Reply Reply September 14, 2015

    Thank you Adam
    I need to work on #6 ; you sure can tell you are appreciated !

  • k

    Reply Reply September 14, 2015

    Thank you so much adam. This was an eye opener for me. I am ready to have a relationship that has a great foundation to build up from. I have just recently become single from a 15 year relationship and the dating scene is different and intimidating to me. as far as the principles go I need to work on 1,2 and 3. I usually give my all to a relationship to make it work, I am tired of being used and thrown away. I need a mature man but I need to be what that man is interested in. I need to work on me and loving myself and giving as much as I am given and having a life outside a non committed relationship. thank you again

  • marina

    Reply Reply September 15, 2015

    i’m getting through the all break up shit …and adam..you make me belive there is still hope …
    i think i need to focus on have an
    incredible life as a single …and learn to enjoy it ..it’s my main goal now

  • Shari

    Reply Reply September 17, 2015

    Great video! I had a guy just stop calling me after coming on really, really strong, and it really, really sucks!! I don’t know if I should reach out to him or just leave it be, it’s been almost 2 weeks. What really sucks, is he drove 4 1/2 hours twice to see me in rush hour traffic which made me feel incredible that he drove so far to see me. But then to just cut me off with no explanation, that really hurts.
    I have no problem attracting men, it’s the emotional attraction I have a difficult time with. The 7 attraction principles are an eye opener. I can’t wait for the next videos. I am ready to weed out the men that are not emotionaly available, which seems to be the ones I always attract & I start to think there is something wrong with me 🙁

  • Rose

    Reply Reply September 19, 2015

    Awesome video and very wise advise. Number 1 is especially important and is exactly what I have done. Find something exciting in your life that you are passionate about and this will keep you in a positive frame of mind while you expand your knowledge and build your confidence. I took up a musical instrument – something I’d been wanting to do for years. I love it. Yoga and keeping fit is another passion of mine and another great confidence builder. When you look better you feel better and it shows!

  • Michele

    Reply Reply September 21, 2015

    This is a very good video. Thanks Adam!

  • Jihan

    Reply Reply September 23, 2015

    Thank you again Sir, it was really amazing and everything was reasonable for me now, I need to be focused with the part of being fun because I’m always into my self acting like I’m not interested on the surrounding but I do have very high values :).
    thanks, good luck

  • Miranda coenen

    Reply Reply September 24, 2015

    Hello handsome,thanks very much for the good advize in the video,i will try to work on the confidence in myself,cause i never go out,every weekend at home,simpel,man always ignore me,they don’t pay attention to me,so why should i continiue going out on saturday night,i am the one ends up gets hurt,at home is safe,no one hurts my heart,i do not see what i am doing wrong,please sweet cheeks help me on this one,much greetings from belgium.

  • Lisa

    Reply Reply September 26, 2015

    Adam–

    Someone above mentioned this but it struck a chord with me so I’m asking it again here. Could you give specific examples for each of these steps? Eg….HOW do I “radiate my femininity?” I’m easy to approach but what does “hard to attain” mean?

    Examples, please.

  • kelley

    Reply Reply September 27, 2015

    Hey Adam

    Just want to say that I am already in a great relationship and as with all relationships there are issues. Mine not major but a lot of mis communication and through watching your videos has helped me understand how to continue to have a great relationship. I thank you for your advise and helping people to be happy. You have taught me some of the areas where I have been lacking with myself and how to better my self and my thinking and I have seen improvements in my relationship with him after hearing you. Thank you so much

  • Maha

    Reply Reply October 2, 2015

    So useful.

  • Yolanda Elias

    Reply Reply October 5, 2015

    Thank you so much for your video Adam, you opened my eyes to alot of things. Cant wait for your other videos, you gave me hope in dating again.
    Thank you Yolanda

  • eb forever

    Reply Reply October 5, 2015

    aaargg, #3 is confusing a bit cuz sometimes the pace is ambiguous. How slow is just right, not enough, or too much and same thing with how fast. I am going to just focus on 1 and 2 and hopefully 3 will just sort itself out.

  • Gold

    Reply Reply October 10, 2015

    Very realistic and empowering, Thank U Adam!

  • Zel

    Reply Reply October 12, 2015

    Awesome advice! Ladies, please listen to him because it works. =]

  • sam

    Reply Reply October 16, 2015

    it’s really a greta video
    i’m a girl who really is boring, i mean i didn’t have any exciting conversation to share it with the man i love ????????
    so how could i fix these?????

  • Norma

    Reply Reply October 18, 2015

    It has been very helpful, i have been alone for 8 years until now I feel the desire to start dating, I have been working on loving myself and beeing independent, I love my life and go to the gym not to like some one, is about me.
    I really like a guy, but he really dont call me, but when I see him I know he likes me.
    I need to know how can I attrack his atention

  • Nickole

    Reply Reply October 18, 2015

    I absolutely loved this video! I printed the 7 Emotional Attraction Principles and have it hanging on my mirror. I learned that I have been confusing chemistry for love, thus investing more into a man than he has been investing into me. In addition, I have also been the “needy girl” who has made my life all about the guy I’m dating. This made my life and interests inexistent which isn’t healthy for me nor is it healthy for the relationship . NOT ANY MORE LADIES! I am confidently willing to learn and will be applying all that I learn to my life.

    I am the most beautiful woman alive, on the inside and the out!
    I am drop dead sexy!
    I deserve to live a life full of happiness and total fulfillment!
    ~I WILL NOT settle for anything less~

  • natalie

    Reply Reply October 20, 2015

    Nice work! Thank you.

  • natalie

    Reply Reply October 20, 2015

    Hi Adam and other readers,

    Ladies, thank you for commenting.

    I’m working on resetting the “high value” attitude.
    Previously, I thought that concept was about my income and rocking’ an appearance.
    ( I look good, but as a refugee and artist, income is zapped for now.)

    Thank you for the reality check!
    I definitely bring value to interactions.
    I’m going to focus on that.

    It’s been me that loses confidence, or feels badly, when I have to explain my income and then I feel judged. I freeze up. And the only men who come near have craptastic lives. Better than no one I thought. Also I thought we could build together. But you know what? Those men have had decades to build themselves and they don’t want or know how to build!! Obvious now.

    Thank you so much Adam!

  • Masha

    Reply Reply October 25, 2015

    I’m grateful for this I learned from you Adam.

  • Yvonne

    Reply Reply November 1, 2015

    Awesome video! ????
    Thanks Adam. sure I will put this to work
    Can’t wait for the nest video

  • Bren

    Reply Reply November 2, 2015

    Very useful information provided!
    I think feeling I’m a high value woman and being easy to approach are the principles I need to work on for better results.

  • Erica

    Reply Reply November 2, 2015

    men will tell you everything just ask and listen

  • Estefania

    Reply Reply November 5, 2015

    I LOVED this video! Omg your tips are SO real and easy to understand, the principle that i need to work the most on is NOT investing more in a man than he is investing in you, I ALWAYS do that :(, even if I don’t text him or call him, I just invest so much of my time thinking about him and fantasizing about being in a relationship with him and ignoring other guys, whenever I meet someone I like I immediately put on the blinders you talked about and I got this tunnel vision that doesn’t let me connect with other men out there, so from this day on I will remind myself of this video. Thank you Adam!

  • Irit levy

    Reply Reply November 9, 2015

    Thank you Adam! so true and makes perfect sense. I’m sure i’ll attract the right guy soon 🙂

  • Jacki

    Reply Reply November 14, 2015

    Thankyou Adam.. .. I also have printed out the 7 principles. thankyou

  • Meemee

    Reply Reply November 14, 2015

    Thanks so much Adams…the videos are really very educative could you please allow them to run for a few more days? Thanks and God bless.

  • Nete

    Reply Reply November 14, 2015

    Amazing videos! I stumbled upon them on YouTube some time ago, and we are a couple of girls from my group of friends in Denmark following you 🙂 The hardest advice for me to follow is “don’t invest more in him than he’s investing in you”. I tend to throw everything on the ground whenever I have a crush on a guy, and give it my all from the very beginning.
    Can’t wait for the next video to be released!

    • Adam

      Reply Reply November 14, 2015

      Haha so great to hear! I used to live in Denmark!!

  • Bev

    Reply Reply November 15, 2015

    Great Video………Obvious when you hear someone say them out loud, different matter to reflect on if you actually are doing or not doing them!! Loved the High Value question……I answered no but that was just my doubt…….of course I’m a High Valued Woman & I’m going to start believing this from now on…..so thank you 🙂

  • ragai

    Reply Reply November 16, 2015

    It is good. I am a high value woman and enjoyed how fast the Yes came.So that made me feel good. Moving slow is very hard! I am spontaneous, honest and pretty prone to sharing. Good reminder. Also do not want to be dominated, allergic to that. the whole idea that success is emasculating is confusing with some of your other advice. I’m 55 and gifted and gorgeous and realistic so who knows. your advice goes in the back pocket for when i am ready to date next year.

  • ragai

    Reply Reply November 16, 2015

    It is good. I am a high value woman and enjoyed how fast the Yes came.So that made me feel good. Moving slow is very hard! I am spontaneous, honest and pretty prone to sharing. Good reminder. Also do not want to be dominated, allergic to that. the whole idea that success is emasculating is confusing with some of your other advice. I’m 55 and gifted and gorgeous and realistic so who knows. your advice goes in the back pocket for when i am ready to date next year.

  • melissa brown

    Reply Reply November 19, 2015

    i love this video each time watch your video it does build my confidence more. whenever i go to you tube i have to watch your videos. Thank you so much, you have open my eyes to many thing that i was’t paying attention to. God bless you

  • Melanie

    Reply Reply November 20, 2015

    Hi Adam, I am so glad that I found you! I really appreciate all your advice and your great personality! I have been divorced for over a year now and my friends keep telling me how I need to start dating. I haven’t dated in over 20 years! Before I decide to go out in that crazy dating world, I would like to be prepared. I have to say that I am a little nervous about dating again and I am hoping you can help me feel more comfortable about it. I enjoyed this video and I look forward to the next one! Thank you!

  • sylva

    Reply Reply November 22, 2015

    after a long time now I feel that I can make something to find my man and not just waiting for the prince. thanks a lot!

  • Tracy

    Reply Reply November 25, 2015

    These are great tips to know and practice to improve my current relationship.

  • April

    Reply Reply November 26, 2015

    Thank you Adam,

    all of your videos are great.

    #2 is my wake up call,b/c I am a giver and I NEVER get anything in return,which never made sense for me.

    It would be nice to know,though,if all this knowledge/tips helped you find the perfect match for yourself!

    XO

    PS/How about making the video on younger men/older women?

  • Rebecca

    Reply Reply November 27, 2015

    Feeling good and fit is important, I do see that. But paleo is not necessary for everyone to feel good in her body. A change of location, as simple as that can do a lot. I for example recently moved out from my parents’ house in order to study in a bigger city. Alone having the choice, what to cook and when to eat in combination with a bit of sports made me feel a lot better not just physically. Do you see my point?
    #2 will be a challenge for me 😀 As I am the kind of person, that gets involved emotionally quite quickly.
    Still, thanks for the tips, they’re sorta enlightening 🙂

  • selma

    Reply Reply November 29, 2015

    very good video!

  • Nereida Gonzalez Meyer

    Reply Reply November 30, 2015

    Thank you so much
    very good

  • Iv

    Reply Reply December 5, 2015

    Nice 🙂 I like what you are teaching and the fact that you are trying to help women deserves respect. Thank you 🙂

  • kim

    Reply Reply December 6, 2015

    thank you for this video it give me alot of confidence

  • Allie

    Reply Reply December 6, 2015

    I always say that people need to know who they are “alone” before getting into relationships and remember that throughout the relationship. Glad to be validated on that! I value myself, am feminine, take care of myself, and am very personable. I never get asked out by men. That I am attracted to. Looking forward to the next videos!

  • Tasmin

    Reply Reply December 9, 2015

    I ❤️ this. I am so guilty of investing more than I receive, never again! Thanks Adam x

  • AK

    Reply Reply December 12, 2015

    These 7 principles sounds familiar to me, really really familiar.

    I think that you copied or you have taken information from actualized.org.
    Leo have mentioned:

    “High value women attract high value men”
    “No man wants a life with you unless you have an
    incredible life WITHOUT him”
    “Treat your body like a temple” etc before

    Actually I watched all the videos actualized.org
    So it didnt help me the “7 Emotional Attraction Principles”

    Thanks anyway for the video

    (btw im still learning english)

  • Marina

    Reply Reply December 16, 2015

    I just love you! my male best friend!

  • Anuja

    Reply Reply December 16, 2015

    I just loved the first principle the most as that has always stayed my primal cause of happiness n i know that only when I m myself very happy, ‘d I b able to make the very one so.
    Thanks, see you soon

  • samara

    Reply Reply December 20, 2015

    loved this video it helped alot

  • P.

    Reply Reply December 25, 2015

    The biggest take away for me was not to invest more in him than he is investing in me. Looking back over the relationship I’m in now, that was absolutely the issue. Now that I see how that contributed to our breakup, I understand why I was right in breaking up with him and what I can do differently next time.

  • Lizzel

    Reply Reply December 26, 2015

    Thank you for this video. I love it I know I can learn more of things. Thank you Adam!

  • Joy

    Reply Reply December 26, 2015

    Thank you Adam, I am 66 and feeling like a teenager. I was so incredibly attracted to a man…we have been having an amazing time Ipin bed for 8 months, but now I want more. He’s keen on all as is…i wish I had been harder to get in the beginning…and I invested much more emotionally. Ah, well I have stopped it all for now…so we shall see.

  • Lorraine

    Reply Reply December 28, 2015

    Thank You!!!

  • esraa

    Reply Reply December 31, 2015

    awesome videos i just love it

  • Eileen

    Reply Reply January 1, 2016

    Thank you Adam for this video. I love the way you focus on the self rather than just on the dissection of the male mind 🙂 all your points are amazing. I think I need the most help with the investing part and the going fast slow part. I am so happy to be a part of this community!!!!

  • Heidi

    Reply Reply January 3, 2016

    Thank you!

  • Shelly

    Reply Reply January 4, 2016

    Great inspirational video…thanks

  • Emelie

    Reply Reply January 7, 2016

    I got this guy I like. When we met sparks were flying and we sat up all night talking. We live quite far away so we haven’t met again but talk regularly through texts. I just have one issue, it is ALWAYS me who starts the conversation. I’m trying to play it very cool, not investing to much, but I kinda get the feeling he’s not very interested (maybe because of the distance). On the other hand he’s quite flirtatious when we chatt.

    Should I just accept the fact that “he’s just not that in to me” or is there a way to make him change his mind (without seeming needie)?

  • Sissy

    Reply Reply January 10, 2016

    Hi Adam &All,

    I ‘m very happy to discover your videos and benefit from your valuable help.
    Thank you so much for sharing this great knowledge and for being so willing to offer your help. I m learning greatly from you. I have never found any difficulties in dating men, though i’ve never succeeded to commit in a long term relationship. The greatest technique i ‘m now aware of is Pacing. Thank you again and thank God people like you do exist!
    Best of luck

  • Jodi

    Reply Reply January 10, 2016

    Awesome! Thank you for the insight! I look forward to the next videos.

  • Mary

    Reply Reply January 10, 2016

    I’m processing all this great info and realize that I need to let my femininity shine through more!

  • Lindah Louise K

    Reply Reply January 11, 2016

    wow! Great video.. i now know my mistakes and planning on working on them. thank you very much.. will be waiting for the second video..

  • Magdalena

    Reply Reply January 11, 2016

    Great video !!! Thanks a lot for share with us Adam 🙂

  • Heather

    Reply Reply January 12, 2016

    Wonderful video. At this point, I really need to build from the ground up–creating an incredible and interesting life for myself, respecting my body, learning how to radiate femininity, and believing in my heart that I bring value to the relationships, conversations, and situations in which I participate. I need to stop thinking that I must make an offering of myself and determine that I only need to *share* myself instead. Thank you so much, Adam.

  • Stephanie

    Reply Reply January 12, 2016

    For me I need to work on learning to radiately feminity. My husband died 12 year ago and left me to raise two small children. Now that they are grown I’m ready to meet a partner.

  • Keke

    Reply Reply January 13, 2016

    How do we get him back to earning our love; if we already acted in a way that made him take it easy?

  • Reet

    Reply Reply January 13, 2016

    Wonderful video. Loved it!

  • Amanda

    Reply Reply January 14, 2016

    Excellent video! I believe that I need to work on all 7 principles! I have been single for 5 years with no luck. Looks as if I need to rebuild myself from the ground up…. :/

  • joy

    Reply Reply January 16, 2016

    i love your video its been so helpful

  • Thetesa Bermudez

    Reply Reply January 16, 2016

    Thank you very much Adam for your nice advice…more power to you and hoping that you can help a lot of women from your wonderful website !

  • Rachel

    Reply Reply January 18, 2016

    Awesome video. There are many aspects of this insightful information I find very interesting however being in touch with more of a feminine aura has been one of my greatest challenges

  • Tamara Bacaro

    Reply Reply January 18, 2016

    Great video! Very helpful! Looking forward to seeing more!

  • Alina

    Reply Reply January 18, 2016

    Thank you Adam,

    I know, I still have a lot to learn, but lessening, reading your advises start make me think differently.

  • Narmadha

    Reply Reply January 19, 2016

    It is so admirable . i just love it

  • Aicha

    Reply Reply January 20, 2016

    Good job i will try all this principles and give you the results

  • Mary

    Reply Reply January 24, 2016

    This is Awesome Adam, I like your tips. They are realistic and easy to understand.Thank you

  • jelena

    Reply Reply January 25, 2016

    Thank you Adam
    I just about to create my First profile on the dating site and of course looking for information how to succeed there. I am pleased to find Adam videos on You tube.You information is very easy to understand and put in to practice. Will keep you update on my progress
    Jelena,50

  • Narelle

    Reply Reply January 28, 2016

    Thanks for the video, as I listen I feel like I pretty much have post of this down yet still fail in the love department… But I finally think I had my light bulb moment in that I invest too much in others without requiring they work at earning that investment and I fail to invest in myself on a deeper level!!! Time to celebrate me, to honour myself through my various daily routines, to be the best version of myself I can purely because its who I am meant to be… ☺️

  • Sara

    Reply Reply January 29, 2016

    I really like this video. I discovered this on youtube, and once I started watching your videos. The first one I watched, how to flirt in text. I couldn’t stop watching! This emotional attraction video has a lot of healthy tips. I know the last guy I had met, who was amazing to me, I invested too much in him, and after he took off with a girlfriend I was left devastated. I felt worthless and was incredibly burned, as I didn’t have too many good experiences with men in the past. But it was hard to get over, and so one day I decided to look up sites, try to find some information, learn more about the dating process, and in doing so I’ve been learning how to value myself once again and gain the confidence I haven’t had recently.

    Your videos are amazing and does make dating seem less scary than how I pictured it. I’m starting to get out there again, create a life for myself, looking through a pair of new optimistic glasses.
    I cannot wait for your other videos, and I’ll definitely keep watching!! It feels good being able to put yourself back on your feet and to high value myself as a woman…because I really do deserve it!

  • Sheri

    Reply Reply January 29, 2016

    Great info! Thank you!

  • Louise

    Reply Reply January 31, 2016

    Thank you Adam, your advice has hit the nail on the head. Was feeling pretty low from a guy I had meet, emotions high and low, confused on his up and down actions and all these steps have pin pointed why. I have more confidence in myself now, and I going to look after No:1. Yep thats me. I am a beautiful person and deserve better. Thanks you’re the best.

  • Martina

    Reply Reply January 31, 2016

    Hello Adam,
    Thank you for this video. I haven’t gone to social events or socialize in general (other than my family, coworkers, and close friends) in a long time and would like to socialize and start dating. These are 7 principles that I can apply to my everyday life. All of these principles resonates with me. The very first principle is what I’m currently working on. I am starting with pursuing things that interests me. The challenge for me is finding interests I like that doesn’t cost a lot of money because I don’t have a lot of money although I have found a few. I am also applying for jobs so I can do more things. There are some I would like to try, but sometimes I feel that I need to bring someone (ex; a friend, family member) who probably has that interest so that I would have someone to talk to. Also,when I tell them about my interests, sometimes I am met with criticism, they try to talk me out of it, or try to convince me to do something else that I may not be as interested in. I may just pursues some of interest by myself. I wish i wasn’t too nervous about the negative things that can happen if I pursue my interest by myself and actually just get out there and do it.

  • Thomasina

    Reply Reply February 2, 2016

    Great video and thanks for the insight!

  • J

    Reply Reply February 5, 2016

    Nice video, and thank you for the effort for doing this 🙂

  • Gabi

    Reply Reply February 12, 2016

    Great video! It just all makes so much sense..I will try to improve all of these principles..My biggest problem is that if I like a guy I invest into him more than he “earns”. I don’t really have a problem to talk to different guys but when it gets closer to a relationship something happens and we kinda stop talking for no reason.. I don’t know if it is because of me or if I just meet guys who aren’t supposed to be with me..Maybe I should be laid back a little bit more instead of trying to help that situation if it makes any sense..Anyway thanks for your videos!

  • Lydia

    Reply Reply February 15, 2016

    I loved your principles 2.5 and 3! Definitely felt encouraged after watching your video! Thanks, Adam!

  • Elsa

    Reply Reply February 18, 2016

    This video was very helpful and valuable. We need to know how to do this dating thing right so that we attract the love that we want.

  • Xtal Syren

    Reply Reply February 21, 2016

    Thank you. My worst enemy is myself. I have such a hard time keeping belief in myself and truly loving, valuing, and respecting who I am. I can be that way initially, but it fades away as I get into a relationship. My confidence is a front for the world, but it isn’t real. I’ve started working on it just this year, but I have a long way to go. I’m taking a break from constantly being in a relationship so that I can learn to value myself. Truly value myself. I am having a very hard time with it.

  • Normi

    Reply Reply February 22, 2016

    Hi Adam,
    Thanks for the information, it make a lot of sense, especially #1-2 that’s so true,I want a fun life, all of us do. And #2 don’t invest more if he doesn’t deserve it. Great job.

  • Milanna

    Reply Reply February 22, 2016

    THANK YOU VERY MUCH I <3 IT THANKS))

  • Jessie

    Reply Reply March 3, 2016

    Thank you so much for making this video! It has opened my eyes to a lot and has really given me something to really think about as I move forward in my dating life!

  • Tijana

    Reply Reply March 5, 2016

    Thank you for the great video!
    I have brought my girlfriends to your channel as well and we are loving it! Lots of love from Serbia 🙂

  • Ayn

    Reply Reply March 13, 2016

    I enjoy your energetic, animated approach. You are great fun to watch. The principles are sound. Feminism has caused us gals to forget our femininity. Femininity is intoxicating to men. I love being feminine; it turns me on. Thanks Adam.

  • Pendo

    Reply Reply March 14, 2016

    Thank you for the video! That was awesome! I definitely need to work on #5 and #7

  • Kristin

    Reply Reply March 15, 2016

    Thank you Adam! I don’t think I have heard such a healthy way of growing as a person and valueing oneself before. It’s like a plausible alround guide for happiness.

    I guess I’ll start another round… First step #1!
    Which also equals taking good care of oneself in my eyes 😉

  • Sheri

    Reply Reply March 27, 2016

    Following you religiously, and very grateful for your advice! Divorced from an 11-year unhappy marriage and was clueless about dating. My biggest problem is actually getting “a life”; trying to figure out what to do with myself now that I am not in a serious committed relationship. With your help, I’ve got all the other steps pretty much down, and I know I will get a life, too. He he Thank you so much for giving me a clue! Can’t wait to see the next video!

  • Ved

    Reply Reply March 27, 2016

    very clear and informative video, can’t wait to hear what you have to say in the upcoming ones 🙂

  • Saugata

    Reply Reply March 29, 2016

    Men are naturally attracted to confident women which has nothing to do with successful career! In 30 years of my medical practice I have found it to be true. She never needs to prov

  • E

    Reply Reply March 29, 2016

    Great advice in this video

  • Gina

    Reply Reply March 29, 2016

    Thank you Adam.
    They should teach this to us in school because it feels like such a mystery.
    Are men struggling trying to understand us too? The lessons I learnt today are priceless and greatly appreciated xx

  • Sami

    Reply Reply March 31, 2016

    I want to on principle 6 because I don’t find myself to be a high quality woman, and that is why I don’t go out with guys of high quality. I want to find myself sexy and of high value.

  • Sammie

    Reply Reply April 1, 2016

    Loved this video. It was very helpful. Keep up the good work ?

  • Natalie

    Reply Reply April 2, 2016

    Hi Adam

    Great video (as always).

    Free bonus download worksheet is a great extra. Thank you.

  • Carrie

    Reply Reply April 3, 2016

    Hi Adam,

    I love your video and thank you so much for the advice. I have learn a lot from it specially my mistake was I was running after men than men running after me. I was given him more attention, then him given me. I was cooking for him and buying him stuff so that he will like me but I just figure out in this video he is just using me. I didn’t take myself as someone sexy or high. I always took myself as someone in the middle.

    Thank you so much and I will follow your step from now on.

  • Jamie Warner

    Reply Reply April 8, 2016

    Hey Adam!

    Thanks so much for being YOU! The principal I need to work most on is either 3. I’m a super assertive achiever and have fallen in love fast. Its so hard to knock yourself out of LA LA land after a romantic date! Have you made up a work for having a “love hangover” feeling the romance and butterflies in your stomach the next day or days after?

    Jamie

  • Christina

    Reply Reply April 9, 2016

    I need to remember number 7. Be easy to approach bit hard to obtain. While I think I am easy to approach, I may be too easy to obtain when with a guy I really like. As another dating coach says..…date at least three, keep the focus on me.

  • Kim

    Reply Reply April 11, 2016

    Thanks Adam!
    Can’t wait for the 2nd video 🙂

  • Michelle

    Reply Reply April 12, 2016

    What I am grateful for from your presentations is learning how the male mind works, as well as, all the great tips for us females. Thank you for putting your knowledge out there!

  • Tammi

    Reply Reply April 13, 2016

    Wow..If only I knew this 20 years ago..would have saved myself so much heartache..and constantly asking friends (or vice versa) “Should I call him..”why Isn’t he calling me”..”should I do the 3 day wait rule before I call him”..blah..blah..” Let’s go to bars and meet men!!.. “Oh my gosh..he called..so nervous..where Should we go..what should I wear..what should I say..will be like me”? He just met me in a bar 2 hours ago..seemed like a great guy.,we really hit it off..now it is 1am..he is calling me..what should I do..and so on..wish I would have watch this video then. Now, I am middle aged, lonely and still..single. I hope these videos will help. Thank you for making these available.

  • Denise

    Reply Reply April 17, 2016

    Thanks, Adam! I am a middle 60’s age lady, single after 43 years of being married. I have been doing exactly what you talk about……developing a new, exciting life for myself as a single. I look at this period in my life as a time to explore interests and hobbies that I couldn’t do before. I have moved cross-country to be near family and so I am starting over in a number of ways. I want to begin dating sometime in the near future but feel that I just want to be friendly and look at dating as a way to build potential friendships that could blossom into love. I know that I will naturally weed out a lot of guys because I have high standards about sex, commitment, love, etc. Thanks for your video and I look forward to seeing more. I think your principles are VERY applicable, even for older women like me.

  • Marylin

    Reply Reply April 22, 2016

    I wasted 8 minutes of my life –the beginning of the video–hearing nothing else but repetitions. The rest of the video is good.

  • Ada

    Reply Reply April 25, 2016

    You are amazing teacher, I understand what I was doing wrong now, can’t wait for new videos.

  • haidie

    Reply Reply April 26, 2016

    awesome video!tnx adam

  • Jay

    Reply Reply May 1, 2016

    Thanks Adam! I hope I can get away from these men who are super insecure with themselves. I found that was my insecurities I have been attracting insecure men my main insecurity is my appearance. Being told that I am beautiful attractive sexy however it’s great but yes I do need to work on myself so good tip thank you

  • Fabian

    Reply Reply May 4, 2016

    Thank you Adam the video was quite good 🙂 I think there was just one thing you had missed out in this video about being attracted to a chubby man I’m actually attracted to a man with a bit of a belly but don’t worry about it its cool lol anyway I think I could to improve more on enjoying my life without a man but I can find it hard to sometimes because I can help but think about having sex with another man and I’ve done it on my own like over a hundred times now lol

    • Fabian

      Reply Reply May 4, 2016

      sorry I put can instead can’t in one sentence lol I don’t why I keep on spelling things work

      • Fabian

        Reply Reply May 4, 2016

        missed out instead of lol i’m making a lot of typos

  • Gail

    Reply Reply May 5, 2016

    You are awesome and so upbeat, I love your videos !!

  • Eunice

    Reply Reply May 7, 2016

    Adam, in one single sentence, you are the best thing that had ever happened to me. Your advice are incredible.

  • Fatima

    Reply Reply May 8, 2016

    Thank you,

    I have been feeling devastated for more than a month after my ex-boyfriend from a long term relationship emotionally died on me. I was hating on myself because he didn’t appreciate any of the efforts I was putting into the relationship. All of my efforts were focused on him, not me. It was draining and toxic because I stopped doing things that I wanted to do, I was only doing things according to what I thought he might want. I had lost the joy of loving my own life… I’ve been trying to knock some sense into myself to forget him and moving on. He’s not worth it. But I didn’t feel any better until I watched many of Adam’s videos on YouTube. When I reached the point of going on this website I listened to this video while dancing (with no music even) and I am just pumped to be ME again. Obviously this involved action taking and pursuing things I want to do, which this video definitely encourages!

  • Hope

    Reply Reply May 11, 2016

    Very interesting and informative!

  • Meredith

    Reply Reply May 13, 2016

    Great video! Ready for more 🙂

  • Maxine

    Reply Reply May 16, 2016

    Great Video,it actually has taught me heps,which I will following my dating.I feel more confident now after watching this.Thanks Heaps

  • Dorcas

    Reply Reply May 16, 2016

    I really love your video.from now am going to work on the last principle.Thanks alot

  • AnnMarie

    Reply Reply May 19, 2016

    Thank you. I now know that MY time is valuable and not to invest more time in him than what he is giving me. This is the step I need to work on.

  • Linda S

    Reply Reply May 21, 2016

    Thanks Adam, this is very helpful.

    I need to focus on not investing too much in the realtionship, not more than in myself.

    What you say really makes sense to me.

    Thank you again for your very valuable advice!

  • Laura S.

    Reply Reply May 22, 2016

    Thanks for the advice, Adam. What you teach here makes total sense! Nice to have some insight from a male’s point of view. I’ll be working on learning to put myself first once in awhile, which is something I usually don’t do. Thanks again! :o)

  • Jamie Caroline

    Reply Reply May 22, 2016

    Thank you for the advice honestly it’s what I needed to hear. My husband broke up with me last October and I’ve Been through hell but I know that relationship is gone! Time to attract a new one but with him!! He’ll see what I am capable of and I came to see your video in the perfect moment! Thank you Adam! Waiting on your next videos!!!!

  • MAXIE

    Reply Reply May 23, 2016

    Aloha Adam….#2 is the one principle I need to be more aware of……Thanks 🙂

  • Cazz

    Reply Reply May 25, 2016

    My most important principle is n#6: “high value women attract high value men”
    Seems as far as I can remember, I have always felt like I am not worth the time, not worth the attention… But looking over my shoulder, I am not nothing! I am worth something and I have come a long way… But how does one get that confidence? No matter how many times I tell myself everymorning “you are worth it”, when it comes to meeting people or confronting a guy, I shrivel back into my shell and hope he gets to see past it.
    I am surrounded by stunning, confident friends, and next to them, it’s like day and night!!
    I know it is not easy, and I will do my best to work on it… I just hope I am doing this right….

  • Joanna

    Reply Reply May 26, 2016

    The one that speaks to me the most is that high value women attract high value men. I realised that I don’t wholeheartedly believe that I am high value as I haven’t rejected men straight away when they didn’t treat me that way. Will work on that area. Thank you for the advice regarding setting boundaries to what is acceptable and will put that into action. Also will make him work for my love because I give it with no effort on his part and he doesn’t appreciate it anymore. Thanks again for showing me where I’m going wrong.

  • Sophie

    Reply Reply May 27, 2016

    Hi, Adam,

    Thanks a lot for these 7 points. Very good summary, and actually teach women to be confident about ourselves, but not intentionally to amuse men. Quite refreshing!

    Question: does these rules to the men at all ages? Is there any possible that more mature/shy/being hurted men are not exactly following these rules?

    Bests,
    S

  • Anne

    Reply Reply May 29, 2016

    The high value is what I struggle with. I was abused by my husband for 25 years. I’m smart, educated, beautiful, and funny. I was told everyday, by the person who should have protected and valued me, that I was worthless. I knew deep down that wasn’t true but hard to deprogram. I don’t feel worth it at times. I don’t share my story with the anyone but those who know me and him. I’m at a loss. Most every man I meet or date really likes me, we have great connections, and we end up being great friends. I have more guy friends than I know what to do with. All that said, I will focus on the value I bring and deserve. A

  • Carol C

    Reply Reply May 30, 2016

    Thank you, Adam, for selflessly sharing what you have learned in the dating world. My husband has been dead for 8 years and I’m just starting to feel ready for a relationship. I am 66 years old but still have my body, my looks and my hair. I am well-educated and have led the life most people only dream of – upper echelons of the music industry. I also have a ton of interests. Some I can no longer pursue thanks to a 70mph head on meeting with a drunk driver. But I’m still getting around on my own, live on my own with my fiercely masculine German Shepherd, and would now like to add a man to the equation.

    Contrary to what others have said, I do want a masculine man. I’m tired of doing it all myself. I am capable and bring high value to a relationship. I would settle for no less than a quality man. I needed all of this reinforced as it’s been so very long since I’ve been in the dating world. And I especially have to remember to radiate my femininity. I have learned to be too independent acting and don’t even know how to ask for help until I’m desperate.

    On the positive side: I was in a brewery the other night where I lead a trivia team. A young man came up to me and said, ” I just have to tell you that you are beautiful”. He was respectful and not trying to pick me up – he was wayyyyy to young. But it really felt good to hear a desirable very young man say those words. That will hold me for a while, until I hear them from an age-appropriate man.

    That brings up one question I have. What is age-appropriate? Anyone who asks me out is at least ten years younger than me. It was been that way since my thirties. And now, the men I find attractive are mostly younger than me. The ones my age or older are lifeless for the most part. Please help me with that. I don’t want to feel like a cougar because I am not.

  • Laurie

    Reply Reply June 2, 2016

    Adam, this is an awesome video, and I love your 7 Emotional Attraction Principles. Thank you so so so much!

  • lily

    Reply Reply June 4, 2016

    awesome video !!

  • Leslie

    Reply Reply June 5, 2016

    Awesome! Looking forward to the next one

  • Nichole

    Reply Reply June 6, 2016

    Thank you!!

  • Mukai Henrieta

    Reply Reply June 9, 2016

    Thanks Adam ?
    Great tips?
    As you went from point to point, I could see exactly WHERE I went wrong & with WHO!! So crystal clear. Wow✨
    I think Point # 7 is a biggie for me. I really need to consciously work on it. I am usually very unapproachable & possibly come across as that – unapproachable. I need to learn to be friendly, vibrant & basically just have fun when meeting people – in this case, men. The reason I am guarded with men is because I don’t want to be taken advantage of…don’t want to appear ‘easy’. But now that you have clarified it… ‘Be easy to approach, hard to attain’, I am excited to let go & have fun.
    Thanks again for sharing your priceless tips?

  • Diane

    Reply Reply June 9, 2016

    I’ve been guilt of moving too fast, and investing too much emotionally,energy and time.

  • Katie

    Reply Reply June 10, 2016

    great video made me think about just how much effort i put into relationships

  • Aniee

    Reply Reply June 11, 2016

    Thank Adam,
    You nailed it…its idealistic but some times we like somebody so much that we forget to follow rules…although we can not deny what you told.. i appreciate and will follow it..

  • Maribel

    Reply Reply June 12, 2016

    Let’s have 2nd video

    Best regards

  • Greer

    Reply Reply June 13, 2016

    I am going to apply these principles to my current relationship.

  • olga

    Reply Reply June 15, 2016

    Much needed when you havent been in the dating scene in a min. We tend to forget what we are

  • Sisi

    Reply Reply June 19, 2016

    I like the video Adam, the thing for me is that I follow all those principles because it’s aleady my character, but still all the guys that I ve being dating they re all afraid to move to the next step and commit. Most of them they even disappear after couple of months of dating, it’s true that they end up by coming back again to me, but they all have that one answer that they want to be with me but no commitment. That’s sound weird but this s how it goes with me

  • Linda

    Reply Reply June 22, 2016

    I love yr video and I learned something, but my thing is that I don’t have good communication skills especially with my guy. What can I do cause I know its me.

  • Nelly

    Reply Reply June 23, 2016

    Thank you for the video! That was awesome!

  • Lorie

    Reply Reply June 26, 2016

    Hi there my name is Lorie;

    I enjoyed your video ; I liked the one with high value, I feel that is really important, I haven’t dated for a year now; still yes I would like too. a relationship burned me of course , it was definitely the blinder thing going on…….. so bad that I stopped taking care of myself , working out , eating wrong ect… It was real bad… However time to move forward, time to think of me…. it does take time alot of it sometimes…. any advice of speeding things up ?

  • K

    Reply Reply June 30, 2016

    Interesting

  • kris

    Reply Reply June 30, 2016

    Thank you for this video . I always have no problem finding men . It is keeping then that is the story . I need to work on being less needy appearing in order to be more myself. I self sabotage things because I figure it is safer to do that with good men

  • Lynn

    Reply Reply July 2, 2016

    I need to work on #1
    I need to basically get a life.
    Do more things. Learn more ect.

  • Jenelle

    Reply Reply July 6, 2016

    Awesome and thought provoking video. One of the hardest of the seven principles I really need to work on is to stop investing more into a man than he is willing to invest in me. I love that you brought up about sexiness being a frame of mind and not just physical.

  • Mary Pat Foley

    Reply Reply July 7, 2016

    Reminder that I am the CEO and I control who is hired and who is fired in my life!!

  • Judi

    Reply Reply July 7, 2016

    Interesting.

  • Teresa

    Reply Reply July 11, 2016

    I have a hard time with being feminine. I manage dozens of men and I CAN’T submit to them, or I’ll be seen as a weak push over.

  • Linda

    Reply Reply July 12, 2016

    Great Video, what hit home for me is # 2 don’t invest more in a man than he’s investing in you! Can’t wait to see the next video…

  • Tina

    Reply Reply July 13, 2016

    Hi, awesome video! I def have to work on being more approachable. I’m a high value woman. I’m just wondering is there’s such thing as too much “high value”? My friends often tell me my standards are to high and I should lower them… I really don’t think my standards are too high, I just know what I want and won’t settle for less…is that a bad thing??

  • Denise

    Reply Reply July 14, 2016

    I have been asking this question in hopes you will help women like myself, who have the guy.

    This guy that I know who used to live here in New York moved to Florida for health reasons. We were friends, connected talked through Facebook and in November started messaging a lot. We talked about everything. I have sent this comment two times before. I have the guy, I have the fish on the line, how do I reel him in.

    HELP!

  • Carolyn Hester

    Reply Reply July 15, 2016

    Good advice…Thank you

  • Carolyn Hester

    Reply Reply July 15, 2016

    Good Advice, Thank you.
    Looking forward to next video.

    .

  • Kathie

    Reply Reply July 18, 2016

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  • Kathie

    Reply Reply July 18, 2016

    The video you sent me doesn’t open.,.the 7 emotional attraction principles

  • Kathie

    Reply Reply July 18, 2016

    The 7 principles if attraction video sent to me doesn’t open

  • Kathie D

    Reply Reply July 18, 2016

    The 7 principles of attraction video sent toe doesn’t open

  • Elece

    Reply Reply July 18, 2016

    You should add: control your hormones and do not look crazy. =( One week per month I cannot control my mood.. And I look needy or crazy, upset with everything.

  • Rossi

    Reply Reply July 19, 2016

    People ask me all the time. Why are you single? Well… I’m self employed opened another practice and play a sport that’s very time consuming. My issue is meeting single men. They end up being married or in a relationship. Those are both no no’s for me. And if I do find a single guy they say I’m intimidating. I am a very confident woman. That will not chase a man. I firmly believe if a man is interested. He should be letting me know he’s interested.

  • sophia

    Reply Reply July 19, 2016

    Thank you for making these videos Adam, they’re like little nuggets of man gold :-D*

  • Lucy

    Reply Reply July 19, 2016

    Great insite in this video. I am working on making my life full and interesting.

  • Olivia

    Reply Reply July 20, 2016

    Adams enthusiasm just lights things up! Thank you Adam. About 50 years ago Emeraude took out full page ads in women’s magazines to advertise their perfume. The caption on the photo of a romantic encounter said “Want him to be more of a Man? Try being more of a Woman.” I was a young girl back then, but that idea always stuck with me. But not when I needed it! Just when I was daydreaming.

    Now, what does that mean? This is (or was) a mans world and somehow we have somewhere along the way, lost that feminine power and mystique that is our birthright as we woman have engaged more and more in the mans world. So for many of us our task is to separate how we are at work to how we are at home and in a love relationship. And to learn what it is to “be feminine.”

    For those of you who are spiritually minded, The Council of the Grandmothers speaks to this very issue. They teach that the world has too much Yang masculine energy causing all kinds of problems. What the world needs is more (receptive) Yin energy. The Grandmothers Speak in A Call to Power just how that can be accomplished both personally and universally.

    And I too Love men who are the ‘take charge’ but not controlling, type of guy!

  • Ag G

    Reply Reply July 20, 2016

    Great video. I get the most out of “Be easy to approach, hard to attain.”

  • Karen

    Reply Reply July 20, 2016

    I’m dating a great guy wity whom I have lots of chemistry with but he’s hesitant to take it all the way to commitment town after 3 months of dating. This video demonstrates to me that I really do need to love my own life more. What needs the MOST work is creating financial security for myself. THAT would go a long way toward me loving my own life and believing that I am a high value woman! Starting a new exercise program today as well just for me as my guy and plenty of guys absolutley love my body type which is super curvy so I can attest to the fact that not all men are looking for a super fit athletic girl. I attract super fit and good looking men even though my I’m not a perfect 10 in the body department.

  • Dani

    Reply Reply July 20, 2016

    Great video it helped a lot!

  • Katelan Edwardsen

    Reply Reply July 22, 2016

    Awesome! Love your advice above the rest! What to do if youve already let things move to fast. I tried digging my heels in but he was moving along quickly and now theve slowed down. Hes still here just not as intense as before so ive tried backing off too and its helped a little.

  • M

    Reply Reply July 26, 2016

    Fabulous. You are very down to earth and honest in your advice. However, I am in a long term relationship with a guy who can’t seem to be ‘ready’ for marriage. He says its because he doesn’t think he feels the same way about me anymore. Please help me get him back…

  • hamdi

    Reply Reply July 27, 2016

    Thanks adam i am 20 yrs old and i interesting for watching more videos to learning emotional attraction
    I love a boy $ i am his neighbour but he is not interested me

  • Sharon

    Reply Reply July 27, 2016

    Great video… I’m so clingy, I guess it’s cause I have a boring life.. But as from now I’m going to work on all my flaws; and I’m going to have fun and stop putting in much into what I’m not seeing.

  • Alexis

    Reply Reply July 27, 2016

    That was somewhat of an eye-opener some of the things that you suggested I have done automatically I some of these things due to my mom teaching me “how to play hard to get and respecting my body because it is my only temple and I must keep it pure.” My mother has always told me “if you respect yourself than others respect you too, but if you like those wild, crazy boys and you don’t care who you get as long as you have someone then they’re not going to respect you for who you really are and you’re not giving yourself a fair chance at meeting someone who is decent,” mom says this which is very true.

    I like the part when you say “if a relationship isn’t working out…”

    But that’s just what it is right now until I give myself the right opportunity to move on with my life for the right reasons which I don’t even know what they are right now because I feel somewhat stuck but I do value myself worth and what you said “is if you think of yourself as a high-class woman then you will attract high class men” and that is very true, I LOVE PLAYING HARD BALL!!!

    (I respect myself and I want to see how much these guys are willing to put up with until I decide to let them come closer)

    I am very picky and maybe that’s what attracted Him. He would continuously come around and I kept him at a safe distance because I had a bad relationship prior to him (but I was in love with this one and losing him killed me inside day in and day out it was a soul tie) something SO STRONG AND UNHEALTHY it was like nothing ever before but he was only my second relationship; & I have somewhat nothing else to fall back on ( because my first one was a rebound and what led to number two only magnifying the feelings even more!) I was happy and losing him killed me. Keep in mind I am still worthy of love I am high-class chick and I deserve my happy ending!

  • lv

    Reply Reply July 29, 2016

    Really great Adam! Thanks for this. I would surely be following you through.

  • Carla Williams

    Reply Reply July 29, 2016

    Thanks….
    Great Info….

  • Valerie obi

    Reply Reply July 29, 2016

    I like the part about not investing too much in the guy and being easy to approach and hard to attain

  • Daisy

    Reply Reply July 31, 2016

    I have a problem with #3 I guess I naturally go slow. So, he makes me aware of it. So, I sped up a little bit and what happens? He puts on the break! Complains that he needs someone on his speed and that he wasn’t comfortable with my beliefs. So, Adam,

  • Daisy

    Reply Reply July 31, 2016

    What did I do wrong.

  • Daisy

    Reply Reply July 31, 2016

    it’s up there.

  • Lara

    Reply Reply August 1, 2016

    I am working on number one and number seven. For a long time, I stopped everything and focused on being a mother and a wife and volunteering at school and forgot to take care of myself … When my kids got older & didn’t need me so much, I hovered over my husband too much…
    I have been focusing on getting involved in community programs, Rotary, and making eye contact and having conversations with strangers on a daily basis… I tend to be shy And I’m working on trying to feel more like a grown-up. I have enrolled in some community college courses and I look forward to expanding my horizons

  • Fatin

    Reply Reply August 1, 2016

    Thank you so much Adam
    I am very grateful

  • GJ

    Reply Reply August 2, 2016

    Your talks and this video are extremely interesting and informative. As ludicrous as it may sound, there was never anyone who would mentor me and teach me these things. I spend my adult life doing everything wrong.. Change is difficult but i am determined that this old dog will learn new tricks.
    One glaring thing i have observed. Precious few woman have that “feminine” thing. It has been obvious that these few just exude femininity…effortlessly. Is this something that can be taught?
    These gals just seem soft and inviting and yet are no pushovers. Can you help with this?
    As you know, I am new to your site. You may have something already in place.

    Thank you for everything

  • GJ

    Reply Reply August 2, 2016

    Please forgive me. I realized the way I expressed my concern about femininity … I heard you when you said you couldn’t teach it, but do you have a referral for who can?
    Quite honestly, i need all 7 principles badly, so I am starting with #4 and #6. Your presentations have gotten through to me that i am important an do have a lot to offer. However, if i don’t take care of myself, i won’t be around to develop the wonderousness of me

  • Beth

    Reply Reply August 2, 2016

    Adam
    Amazing so nice and so helpful thanks

    • lisa

      Reply Reply August 9, 2016

      Your last comment is a perfect example of femininity. You recognized how wonderful you are. Most likely this refers to how wonderful you are as a woman, and a person worthy of respect and love. Since you already have that confidence, femininity should follow naturally. Think about the qualities you like in a man and what masculinity means: confidence, attractiveness, a perspective on life that reflects how a man thinks and feels. Then think about the opposite: what you like about being a woman including your physical appearance, manner of clothing, the way you walk and your posture, your confidence and your love of being a woman. These things are femininity.

  • Beth

    Reply Reply August 2, 2016

    I am still working g on emotional attraction
    Thank yousomuch

  • Betha

    Reply Reply August 3, 2016

    My fav was wanting a masculine man and me being more feminine. Thanks so much for pointing that out! Very important 😉 I’m learning this and it’s working 😘…. Thanks Adam

  • Amanda M Morales

    Reply Reply August 3, 2016

    Great info! Thanks!

  • Andi

    Reply Reply August 4, 2016

    These tips and advice is great. I have been seeing someone and lately a bit on the edge of if he really still wants to see me and it makes total sense because he doesn’t put effort into seeing me. I am so happy I stumbled across this

  • Deborah Franklin

    Reply Reply August 5, 2016

    High Value..a must..

  • Cansu

    Reply Reply August 5, 2016

    These tips seem very logical and useful. I’ll try and see if they work for me. Thank you in advance!

  • Gwen

    Reply Reply August 7, 2016

    I really enjoyed the video. I see much of my old self here. Fortunately I have gone through a period of growth and have learned to respect and value myself. I have also had a change of attitude regarding what I will and won’t accept. Your video verified that I am in a healthy place

  • lisa

    Reply Reply August 9, 2016

    The video is motivating and the advice sounds practical. It will be interesting to see if the advice works in real life. Also finding these men in the first place can be challenging.

  • Aniseed

    Reply Reply August 10, 2016

    Hello Adam,

    Thanks a lot for making this video. I am going to work on the points you mention in this video. Well, I must say that it did boost my confidence level. To be honest I felt like I always had been the kind of woman you said that we should be, but I somehow had lost myself somewhere. I guess I just need to be me again. Well I just hope it works…and I think it well. I think I finally am in a right place where I can get the right guidelines. Thanks again. Looking forward to your other videos and tips.

  • Nic

    Reply Reply August 11, 2016

    Thanks Adam for the wonderful tips. Please could you make one in how to keep your man? 😉

  • Maria

    Reply Reply August 14, 2016

    Awesome ! Thank you !

  • Denise

    Reply Reply August 16, 2016

    Great honest . Good tidbits for single women to be mindful of. Especially the get a life aspect.

  • Nicole

    Reply Reply August 18, 2016

    I’m so glad to have discovered your Youtube channel. I met a great guy online and though distance is an issue at the moment, I can see where I can improve upon the way I handle myself and our interactions.

  • Eftihia

    Reply Reply August 18, 2016

    Great video.thanks!!

  • Mini

    Reply Reply August 18, 2016

    Hi Adam and everyone whose comments I have read,
    I found your style of teaching/talking very open and honest. I have found that men are attracted to my strenghts however they don:t commit. It certainly has to do with having and enjoying your own life and not investing more energy or for that matter time into an uncommitted relationship. Looking forward to next Video. Thanks again

  • Jessica

    Reply Reply August 18, 2016

    Great video! Believe it or not all of these principles have been embedded within me from a young age. However, I have been told on more than one occasion that because I do follow these principles that is the reason why I am still single at 34… I often wonder if its a cultural aspect because as a African American women I feel as though maybe I am stereotyped to be a certain way. When in fact I am the complete opposite.

  • neelu

    Reply Reply August 19, 2016

    Great job Adam … I m totally your fan ….

  • mar

    Reply Reply August 19, 2016

    hmmm. ready for more.

  • Alice

    Reply Reply August 21, 2016

    This video is so very helpful. Your truly amazing!!

  • radhia

    Reply Reply August 22, 2016

    awesome, I love your precious advice. keep it up. I ‘ll wait for the next videos

  • Nesma

    Reply Reply August 30, 2016

    Very useful advice! Lots to think about mindfully, I love that I really need to think about myself first and what I want !

  • Dragana

    Reply Reply August 30, 2016

    I really enjoyed the video hope to help us all to get a better dating life. Love you all xo

  • NINA

    Reply Reply August 31, 2016

    I have a question I might have a little of a hard time find your man because a single mother with a baby boy I usually get over my husband’s murder so I might be a bit tricky or hard for me because I have my baby with me and I’m not sure if many men but they won’t accept me even though I have a child with me
    I also noticed not many men would accept responsibility and dealing with a child with me of being a single mother so I don’t want to accept the baggage if you get what I’m saying that’s question is that of a comet

  • Jacqueline

    Reply Reply September 2, 2016

    This video was great, I have learned so much already. Thank you

  • Renee Isabelle

    Reply Reply September 3, 2016

    I’ve just watched this video, and it’s quite an eye opener, really. I’m in a situation right now that has had me confused the past couple of weeks, and this video gave me answers that i didn’t really expect to hear at the moment. 

    Thanks so much for this Adam! Very helpful! <3

  • Lauren

    Reply Reply September 5, 2016

    I think my problem is in the #7. I am hard to approach, but once somebody approched me, I think I am easy to attain.

  • Lauren

    Reply Reply September 5, 2016

    Oh, and also thanks for those amazing tips. 🙂

  • Teri

    Reply Reply September 7, 2016

    very helpful and very logical. just have to out this info into practice. Everything I have read, studied , watched, etc. really at the core all have the same message. But it might take a different way of saying it that will click for others, like myself. Coming out of 16 year abusive marriage and the mother of an 11 year old son, it has been hard. I come with my own barrel of issues that I am addressing one by one. I have been dating someone for the last 8 months who has been divorced for 6 years and I have only been single for about 10 months. He is old boyfriend from 25 years ago!! He has been my biggest rock and supporter and he reminds me to do things for myself and be “alone” and “single” because I have to learn to do those things. He is the one who wants to take things slow and he has walls up too. But these 7 rules remind me to take care of me FIRST because it is the only way I will be good for me, my son and anyone I date. another important emotion rule is not to be invested more than he; it is the only way not to be let down, something else I am working on. THANK YOU!!!

  • Gina

    Reply Reply September 13, 2016

    Thank you Adam!!! Your video is very helpful!!! 🙂

  • Deborah Richardson

    Reply Reply September 13, 2016

    Enjoyed the video.

  • Rd

    Reply Reply September 20, 2016

    Wow. Simple, easy and brilliant. Thank you

  • KH

    Reply Reply September 20, 2016

    Good video looking forward to the next one

  • Kristy

    Reply Reply September 21, 2016

    Great video

  • Diana

    Reply Reply September 22, 2016

    I tend to invest more into him than he is investing into me.

  • Sheronda

    Reply Reply September 23, 2016

    Hi,
    I’m really working hard on attaining #1, a wonderful fulfilling life, after 17 years of marriage. I, too, have children (ages 9 & 11) who need my support as we manage a new life. I have begun by finding new girlfriends who are interested in the same activities I like. I’m also doing things I can do alone. For years, in my marriage, i had no life outside of the marriage.
    Going to keep working it until I completely love my life!

  • sheila

    Reply Reply September 25, 2016

    Affirms and co-insides with Adam has advised so far in his videos. Great simple information that hits a home run as it makes sense 🙂

  • yanaira Lorenzo

    Reply Reply September 27, 2016

    i love the way you talk about women and nice video

  • Steph

    Reply Reply September 27, 2016

    Adam, I love you, but just once I’d love to watch one of these videos that was all meat and potatoes! Im here, I’m watching you, i already trust you and know who you are! <3

  • Xena LaPrade

    Reply Reply September 29, 2016

    Thank you for your advise you really helped me in a few of my problems in relationships and calmed me down about my life and who I deserve thank you now I know what I must do in life.

  • Saadie

    Reply Reply October 5, 2016

    Thank you!!

    Some of us need advise like this from the heavens above! since nobody tells you this important stuff. In your words, no-one has invested this time in me, I have so many so called close relations yet no one… thank you Adam ; )

  • Susan

    Reply Reply October 6, 2016

    Loved the video Adam ! You are a great speaker & life coach !
    1-3 are my favorite most relatable tips that I seem to need constant reminders of lately.
    I’ve made great strides over the last 6 months making my life full & better on my own.
    And I’ve only just begun. I recently re-connected with a guy I was involved with 4 years ago and both of us are in much better situations in our lives than we were when we first met.
    I have noticed his chase & hide process the last couple weeks. Especially if I begin to give more than I receive. But I wasn’t sure until now how to understand it.
    Thank you for your guidance. I look forward to future videos from you !

    Susan

  • dorin

    Reply Reply October 6, 2016

    It has helps me thanks alot for having you

  • Tara

    Reply Reply October 8, 2016

    Thanks Adam video was great loved it 😊😊

  • Deanna

    Reply Reply October 9, 2016

    Thanks Adam! Great job–already feeling more confident!

  • Alexandra

    Reply Reply October 10, 2016

    Makes a lot of sense and a viable plan. Hard to make myself get out as I’m not a bar type person.

  • Valerie

    Reply Reply October 11, 2016

    Super principles…printed and ready for the bathroom wall. Looking forward to getting out there.

  • Mary

    Reply Reply October 13, 2016

    Thanks so much Adam! These are so great! Couldn’t have found you and James at a better time for me!

  • Juli

    Reply Reply October 13, 2016

    Great video. ..all things we’ve heard before but presented and explained very well! Thanks!

  • Glenda

    Reply Reply October 16, 2016

    That’s awesome Adam,I have never realised that.I’ll keep watch at the same time trying them out.

  • ghada

    Reply Reply October 17, 2016

    Thank you Adam..

  • noor

    Reply Reply October 18, 2016

    hi, thank you adam for these videos ,

  • Edyta

    Reply Reply October 21, 2016

    I think you are spot on about all your points. So I will be checking out more videos from you about the personal growth that we all need to work on!!!! We all need to feel exited about life!!!

  • Renee

    Reply Reply October 23, 2016

    I am listening to everything you have to say. I met a man on social media. We argued politics. We bantered. And then things seemed to edge toward more personal conversations. We found that we had a lot in common both in our personal lives as well as business. I am a confident, sensual, 61yr. old woman. But I haven’t dated in almost 30 yrs. I found out he is 42 and hasn’t dated much in the past 7 yrs., and nothing intimate. As with me, he had trust issues after a cheating spouse. But he was surprised that he was telling me things he hadn’t discussed with any other women. And we both started becoming attracted to each other. Perhaps it was the safety of being online. We’ve exchanged photos, no sexual ones. The problem is I find myself falling into old habits, ones you warn against. So I am listening. And I will follow your advice. I need to remember who I am, and not who I was in my 20’s. Thank You Adam.

  • Kryzti

    Reply Reply October 24, 2016

    A lot of what he has said I have done. I meet an amazing man last year, and he helped me get into a passion I have had since I was a teen. We have been good friends since. Over the course of the pass few months I have realizes that I have fallen in love with him. What makes it so hard it that we have great chemistry and we are amazing together, but he has a hurdle that is preventing him from loving me back. We both truly care, respect, and think highly of one another. Now I have been trying to date guys, but I don’t feel the chemistry. I even have done what Adam has suggested. I am almost at a lost. Part of me doesn’t want to give up on my friend, but on the other hand I don’t want to end up wasting my time. I am hoping the next few videos will help me.

  • Andreia Merendas

    Reply Reply October 24, 2016

    Just great and works. 🙂

  • Antonietta pellegrino

    Reply Reply October 25, 2016

    I like the video but I really would like it if you showed me how to apply it like a how to implement the strategy in real life and showing the results that’s how I learn I’m a visual learner thanks Adam

  • Nadia

    Reply Reply October 26, 2016

    Your a great teacher! Thank you!

  • Monica

    Reply Reply October 26, 2016

    Great info, but this isn’t what I’m looking for, or stuff I need to work on. I’m waiting for the part on how to get the obsessive guys to leave me alone, quit calling me, texting, ringing the doorbell, telling everyone I’m their girlfriend. They get so mad at me when I ignore them so they harrass me, the police won’t help, I don’t know what to do, I feel lost.

  • Tshenolo

    Reply Reply November 5, 2016

    I got into a relationship with a guy that has been wanting me for months, id been rejecting him coz i thought i had better chances with two other guys, one was just using me for sex coz i happened to meet a girl he liked instead, and i found out from her textmessages with him that he liked her,while he made me feel special at time, the other guy too was blunt that he didnt want me,just the sex, when he had been into me for like 2 months,our chats were sooo great, until we had sex, as fresh from pain as i was i decided to take the advise from your other video,to give myself breathing time, until this new guy came into my life and i couldnt say no because id never been in a proper relationship in a while and i decided not to wallow in self pity and dispise for people that were just flings, im definitely taking the advice here, because im keeping him!

  • Kim

    Reply Reply November 5, 2016

    I had dropped these principles from my life and now realize where i went wrong…..I became needy and un-confident in myself…i forgot to be myself…..now i’m reafy to get back to basics

  • Angela

    Reply Reply November 6, 2016

    Thank you for the video and excellent advice given. These steps can never be heard enough. These will be my everyday principles for the rest of my life. Loving me and caring for me has been my greatest strength and also an admired one..

  • venus

    Reply Reply November 7, 2016

    It was a great video. Loved it so much!Thank you for sharing all these useful information.

  • tamanna

    Reply Reply November 8, 2016

    hi Adam i loved the video.

  • Rose

    Reply Reply November 8, 2016

    THANKS FOR BEING HONEST!

  • Tara

    Reply Reply November 11, 2016

    Excellent video!!

  • Kathleen

    Reply Reply November 11, 2016

    Hi Adam! Well…that was a fun video to watch! Your presentation style is quite charismatic! Honestly, the principles you taught were reassuring to me. Apparently, I’m doing a lot of things right! I have a good life, activities beyond my career and family, and I take great care of body. I’m fortunate to be physically attractive, and very approachable. So when trying to figure out where it is that I fall short, I can identify a couple of gray areas… On the rare occasions that I’ve met someone who I find enough interest in, who I think sees my value, I may move too fast. I don’t mean I start assuming a serious relationship, I mean that I get excited to talk to him and see him and one might see that as though I’m too into him…?? The other is my being approachable…maybe TOO approachable! I’m used to being in front of and speaking to groups. I’m very welcoming, kind, friendly, and wear a smile most of the time. I don’t automatically assume a man is hitting on me just because he strikes up a conversation. I like to talk with people and learn about them!! Well…sometimes, that makes a man feel a little too welcome, if you know what I mean… That’s a problem!! I don’t really know how to put up the stop sign BEFORE it gets awkward. Unfortunately, it gets awkward often. I have found so very few men who I am truly interested in – who are what I consider high value enough, and I have the attitude that if it isn’t going to go anywhere, it is a waste of time! So…maybe that’s my problem???? I don’t know..

  • Audrey

    Reply Reply November 12, 2016

    Thanx Adam thus shod definitely open doors

  • Bonnie

    Reply Reply November 14, 2016

    Thank you Adam for caring so much about women to share this wisdom with us I knew some of these points but there is one that I didn’t know and I am 71 a widow and still looking forward to life last love of my life in this last chapter of my life. We are never too old to learn thank you sweetheart

  • sindi

    Reply Reply November 15, 2016

    Thank you Adam. Your videos have helped me so much. I now know the value l have. Im sexy and confident…thanks again.

  • Anita

    Reply Reply November 16, 2016

    It’s a great video.I try to use these principles in everyday life.

  • Cat

    Reply Reply November 16, 2016

    Perfectly said Adam! I’ve always known I’m a great catch and carry myself in a confident, feminine sensual way (different than sexy) and I’m outgoing. But after listening and seeing the first couple of rules to follow, I realized that although I know what I have to offer, if I really liked a man, I’d start giving way more than I got because I thought “I’m just a caring, giving woman” and by continuing that, I was always taken advantage of and willing to compromise on my boundaries.
    Now at 48, just yesterday, I told a man I was dating for 6 months (and crazy about) that it wasn’t working because the relationship had become unbalanced and I deserved to be treated as well as I treated him. And it’s the most empowering action I’ve taken in a relationship. I finally see the patterns I was allowing and it always ended the same.
    So thank you for your video! It’s amazing how I knew everything for years that you said but I had rose colored glasses on and wouldn’t listen to myself. Now I’m ready to make myself number 1 and if I don’t find what I want, I’ll be fine being with my friends, kids and myself!

  • Patti

    Reply Reply November 19, 2016

    THANK You Adam for th great advice. I’ve been out of the dating scene for quite some time. I’ve been single for almost 7 months now, not sure if I’m ready for the dating scene again or not. But I thank u for the great advice and I am going to continue watching your videos for all the advice on dating I can possibly get, like I said I’m new to this whole dating scene.

  • Mariani

    Reply Reply November 20, 2016

    A big thank you for you Adam. It was an interesting topic, a great video and advice. You explained most of it very clear. In my opinion of course it’s not popular opinion I need more explanation about femininity. I know you are not woman but it doesn’t mean you don’t know how to radiate femininity. Even though I am a woman it doesn’t mean I know how to radiate femininity. I’m independent woman some time I don’t realise that I dominate man. I think I didn’t dominate man but man think I dominate him. I could really use your help with something. If you can provide more example how women can radiate their femininity in your next video it will help a lot of women Adam.

  • Deidra

    Reply Reply November 21, 2016

    Thank you Adam for the encouraging video. I have found that in all my past and present relationships, I am extremely needy. Which is an emotional attraction killer. I will work on this. I am looking forward to seeing the next video.

  • Tra My Vo

    Reply Reply November 23, 2016

    Thank you. The video is very helpful.

  • Manali

    Reply Reply November 27, 2016

    Thank you your video helped me to understand…what’s wrong is going on in my life…..will surely apply your principles and Let you know the changes in my Life

  • Jerusha

    Reply Reply December 1, 2016

    Those were really useful awesome tips.Thanks Adam…

  • jessica

    Reply Reply December 1, 2016

    That video is awesome and useful. But, my problem is putting effort on myself makes me confident, whether or not the guy is investing the same.

  • aiza

    Reply Reply December 6, 2016

    thanks adam, i Owe you a lot

  • Karlee P

    Reply Reply December 7, 2016

    As a graduate student, it’s hard to find time to date and look for a relationship. At the moment, I do not believe I am in a position to focus on a finding someone to build a relationship with, which brings me to my point of how I love that your videos focus mainly on self-image and positive outlooks on who I am as a person. I can see where I lack on most of these 7 emotional attractions, but I know the one I struggle with the most (at least internally) is not having an incredible life without a man. I wish to work on all of these attractions, but I am obviously limited on time since I am a graduate student and my life is wrapped up in researching, teaching and studying. How can I make a plan for myself to take all of these 7 emotional attractions and work on them with a limited time frame? Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

  • Cha

    Reply Reply December 9, 2016

    Hi I am so blessed by your principles. It gives me clear understanding that men will only appreciate a woman when she learned to love herself first. I love your sincerity. Thank you. Godbless.

  • B.

    Reply Reply December 10, 2016

    Thanks Adam 🙂 Great advice! I liked all what you said but one thing stood out most of what you said was about when someone is single, that that is the time to do all the things you are passionate about because you have more time and it is a time for discovering what you are passionate about. Thanks again!

  • Bonnie Mitchell

    Reply Reply December 11, 2016

    This I found this to be good information I’m in my 49’s single for a few years finally ready to dip my foot back in the water so to speak after a bad 25 year relationship. Hopefully this advice will help. I had no self esteem at all thanks to my ex. So I need to work on no. 4 treat your body like a temple, learn to love my own body, think that I’m sexy. What a laugh. I know I’m working on it. But thanks….

  • Daria

    Reply Reply December 12, 2016

    Hello Adam!! I could have only wished I’d come across this BEFORE i fell for the man I’m currently interested in. No emotional investment on his part, and a broken heart on mine!!

  • Tina

    Reply Reply December 13, 2016

    Its funny because I have met some great guys and been failing at the dating life. These tips are exactly what I needed… Thank you!!

  • Glaucia Karime Braga

    Reply Reply December 15, 2016

    Just saying thank you! Attracting love when you feel confortable in your own skin, having an amazing life, vibrating and letting flow all energy with no drama and having fun…this is all about! Great!

  • Melinda

    Reply Reply December 15, 2016

    Thank you for the great tips. Some seem pretty common sense, others I never really thought about. Looking forward to having some fun learning and growing, yes growing forward 🙂

  • Deanna

    Reply Reply December 17, 2016

    Excellent advice, looking forward to the rest of the video’s.

  • Michelle

    Reply Reply December 17, 2016

    I am having problems with download of book and of the worksheet, please help.

  • Tanzila siddiqui

    Reply Reply December 18, 2016

    Great advice ! You doing a great job ! Well done

  • Tanzila siddiqui

    Reply Reply December 18, 2016

    Ty Adam sir ! Great advices ! Uh doing a great job ! Well done

  • Ivette

    Reply Reply December 18, 2016

    I need to work on principle 1, 2, and 6. I know… but I’m here and willing to do the work on myself, to be happy with myself first.

  • Abigail

    Reply Reply December 18, 2016

    I am holding strong principle #1 — I am building an incredible life and want to find a man who lives at an equally passionate level!

  • Connie

    Reply Reply December 20, 2016

    Thanks, Adam, great video. I know I need to work on #5. I’ve been “independent” since 16 when my mother left my father and I took on a mother type roll for my younger brother while my father checked out in depression. Being feminine to me is being “needy”. Now divorced from a 15 year marriage with a narcissist, I don’t trust many people and am quick to take care of myself. Part of being feminine is knowing a man desires to take care of his woman, and to let him, to not squash down his manhood. To know I do take care of myself and choosing to let a man want to take care of me is not lessening my independence or making me appear needy.

  • Carmen

    Reply Reply December 20, 2016

    Great video, thanks for sharing with us women, some essential things about male psychology.
    I think you’re absolutely right about the seven rules to follow and especially the one about radiating one’s feminity was momentous. I’m looking forward to your next videos.

  • Deana

    Reply Reply December 22, 2016

    I loved your video and e-book , I understand what your saying about being more confident, I have a question- I’ve been with the same man for 28 years , since I was 16 I’m 45 now , and we’ve tried making things work , we tried for 3 years and didn’t really get nowhere, he started seeing someone and it hurt me and we made up and things were going ok , then it went sour again . The thing is , he’s the only one I’ve ever been with , and he thought he was keeping me from experienceing life cause I hadn’t been with anyone. He was my life and our daughter. Now he’s with someone else again and it’s tearing me apart and I’m scared of getting out in life again . And I still love him and want him back , could you please help me figure out how to find out what my passions are and how to be happy and confident again , please help me find myself again .

  • Nikki

    Reply Reply December 22, 2016

    Be confident. ###don’t be a needy friend.

  • Roberta

    Reply Reply December 23, 2016

    Adam. Thank you, thank you, thank you.

  • Sandra Karam

    Reply Reply December 23, 2016

    You are awesome ….

  • sanna

    Reply Reply December 23, 2016

    👌👍

  • Yume

    Reply Reply December 23, 2016

    thanks Adam that was really helpful ! i’m willing to change now, wish me luck guys 😀

  • Stevette

    Reply Reply December 24, 2016

    Easy to approach..hard to obtain. Right when things are going great i come on to strong…. HELP! Thanks Adam! I have work to do …

  • Rae

    Reply Reply December 25, 2016

    Well done and informative.

  • Maureen Pugh

    Reply Reply December 26, 2016

    how to be easy to approach, hard to attain when it seems looks are in the equation.

  • Aloria

    Reply Reply December 27, 2016

    Amazing! Thank you!

  • larisa kalin

    Reply Reply December 28, 2016

    I found this video most interesting as I am so ready to meet the “love of my life”. Thank you.

  • Susie

    Reply Reply December 28, 2016

    I really found this video very interesting and helpful. After years of dating and failed relationships I finally found some useful information and am going to try this. thank you .

  • Belynda S

    Reply Reply December 28, 2016

    Hi Adam,

    Thank you for the principles. I think I have the basics of most of them. I just have to remember to apply them. My biggest hang up that I feel I need to work on is being more approachable. I am a pretty dominate woman that has learned to do things on her own out of necessity not always because I want to. But that being said I have learned how to go out and be comfortable with doing something I want by myself. Now to get the sexy approchable woman to shine through.

    Belynda

  • Marys

    Reply Reply December 29, 2016

    Thank you Adam,

    I will start with my journey and will get back to you. This video is really helpful. I learned a lot!

  • Jenny

    Reply Reply December 30, 2016

    Amazing video. The worksheet will help as a daily reminder when life kicks in

  • Susan

    Reply Reply December 31, 2016

    Very helpful…thankypu and God bless

  • Tasha

    Reply Reply January 1, 2017

    Happy New Year.
    Day 1..
    Thank you for the video.
    Great content.. Lords knows I need it.😁
    Priciples:
    2,3 and 7.
    This are my tougher areas. But I am glad I am able to admit that to my self. And change in those areas.
    Looking forward to things being different..

  • Elizabeth

    Reply Reply January 1, 2017

    Excellent speaker, very interesting content. Would have liked to know more about ”radiate your feminity” in a context where woman have significantly bigger jobs and income than man but yet still wanting the dominant male…. How can this be reconciled?

  • Marjorie

    Reply Reply January 2, 2017

    I have had enough of dominant males. How about an equal, balanced relationship? Otherwise, I see the value of the principles. Would like to know more about radiating my femininity.

  • Lily

    Reply Reply January 2, 2017

    #2 Don’t invest more in a man, than he’s investing in you – I am a giver so this one will be hard to do but I’m going to try. Also like Elizabeth said above – #5 “radiating femininity” I’m a strong woman who’s been alone along time and had to do things for myself, hard to reconcile the two but will work on it.

  • Tracy

    Reply Reply January 3, 2017

    Awesome video thank you

  • Carolyn

    Reply Reply January 3, 2017

    Great reminders Adam! I am presently in the midst of my man pulling away to deal with some emotional things so your video was timely in reminding me of why this is affecting me so much, I need to get my life back!

  • Rachel

    Reply Reply January 3, 2017

    I loved this video Adam!!! It was exactly what I needed to hear!

  • Denise Long

    Reply Reply January 5, 2017

    Great advice, I had forgotten to be me. I’m thankful for the reminder it’s ok to be me.

  • Julia

    Reply Reply January 7, 2017

    Your charisma motivates me along the way! THank you!

  • jessie

    Reply Reply January 8, 2017

    yeah I really should start making my single life the one I love right now

  • Amy Darnall

    Reply Reply January 8, 2017

    I absolutely cannot wait to hear more!!!!

  • Peggy

    Reply Reply January 10, 2017

    Very difficult to start over after 50

  • Poppy

    Reply Reply January 11, 2017

    “High value women attract high value men” found the missing link I guess. This video is awesome, thank you so much. Can´t wait for second one!

  • Shelbs

    Reply Reply January 12, 2017

    Awesome video, was very helpful
    thank you Adam 😊

  • olin

    Reply Reply January 14, 2017

    Adam thks lot this it flees so great to believe in your self. Not only self-confidence wins a man heart. But even a job. Thks so much

  • Angel Arthur

    Reply Reply January 15, 2017

    Thank you Adam! This was a compelling video with fantactic advice. I will likely be purchasing your ebook as well. I love to better myself and I love being open to new, intelligent ideas. Thanks again…see you in your next video!
    Warmly,
    Angel

  • Christy

    Reply Reply January 15, 2017

    Hi Adam!

    This was a really good video, I enjoyed all of it! I most definitely invest more in a guy than he does in me. It’s a cycle I have been trying to break for quite some time now.

    Another thing, I am oftentimes overly friendly with men, which then many of them mistaken as flirting, when actually I am not. There are times of course I am actually am flirting. Quite recently a male friend asked me to quit texting him because I was coming off as flirtatious. I explained to him that was not my intention, but would certainly respect his wishes.

    Anyways, I definitely need to work on being careful not investing more into people than they invest in me. Friendships included here, not just regarding male friends or acquaintances.

  • Shannon

    Reply Reply January 16, 2017

    I am a giver so that one to not give more than they are, will be a big one for me. But I am just getting back out into the dating scene and really need to learn to be more approachable. I catch eyes all the time but not sure on how to respond

  • Violetta

    Reply Reply January 17, 2017

    Thank you for the video, it was helpful. I think my biggest issue is the last point, being easy to approach and hard to attain. I’m very shy so I keep to myself. I’ve been told men look at me often but none of them approach me. My friend keeps saying I need to be more flirtatious and I don’t know how to do that. Hoping next videos will help me get through this block. This is very helpful. Again, thank you so much Adam.

  • Jen

    Reply Reply January 19, 2017

    Amazing!

  • Candy

    Reply Reply January 19, 2017

    Absolutely the most helpful dating video I’ve seen

  • Jennifer

    Reply Reply January 25, 2017

    Great advice. Past few years I’ve been single I seem to attract the same type of men. Value- is the key world for me. I will be working on this.
    Thank you!!

  • Yarah

    Reply Reply January 25, 2017

    Thank you!! The giver/taker advice is much appreciated…can’t wait for the next videos 🙂

  • Maria Angelina

    Reply Reply January 26, 2017

    I’m glad I found you who can give advice on any intimate relationship besides being good friends. You have great knowledge of what I should do in good ways to have confidence in myself. I like what you said about enjoying what I like most to do in my life, able to do the best I can to love myself, my whole being and my body. Thank you and can’t wait to hear from you and for the next video.

  • Charmian

    Reply Reply January 27, 2017

    Great reminders for life in general points although Adam I would put number 6 and 4 before the others reason being when you let love in first the rest will follow….
    Love yourself physically and emotionally will lead to true valuing of yourself this in turn leads to the confidence and emotionally and physical ability to put the energy into developing and maintaining that amasing life …. and you forgot one thing … patience ‘everything comes to us at the right time… we only need to have patience and trust in the process as all great things are worth waiting for 🙂

    great affirming information 🙂

  • Robin

    Reply Reply January 29, 2017

    Great video. I can’t wait to learn more. I want to change the way I have been doing things and get the man that I really want.

  • Delica

    Reply Reply January 30, 2017

    I love your advice, but things are easier said than done.

  • Connie

    Reply Reply January 30, 2017

    I’m a single mom and usually end up with a fwb situation. I’m seeing a guy who “is not ready for a relationship” but I was patient and didn’t push so now he really seems to be coming around. He invited me to meet his daughter and friends and he does things for me and wants to please me. I m enjoying this time very much. Thanks for advice.

  • Coral

    Reply Reply February 2, 2017

    Great advice. I realized where I’ve been going wrong in several ways . I can’t wait for the next video

  • Cristina

    Reply Reply February 2, 2017

    Thank You! there is only 1 question I have. You say that for every female there is a man attracted to her TYPE. So how about if Im not attracted to the type who’s attracted to me?

  • Christine

    Reply Reply February 3, 2017

    i get something out of each of your videos because it’s from a male perspective that’s the key so important, KEEP GIVING US THE WORDS I’M A WIDOW AND IT’S HARDER TO REENTER THE DATING WORLD . the games, the hidden meanings, it would be good if you could give insight somehow to that because dating divorcees vs widows are a whole different thing with people in the upper age groups…help!!!

  • AK 47

    Reply Reply February 6, 2017

    I think self-improvement is the best part means if a person is not happy in his/her own life then he/she can’t make the others happy so it’s important to passionate about your own life!!!

  • Susie

    Reply Reply February 6, 2017

    I like your advices and your simple and warm style – thank you:)

  • Sallyjane

    Reply Reply February 6, 2017

    I am really enjoying learning from your videos here and on YouTube. A good guy friend of mine (friend zoned guy friend) always tells me when I ask him how to do something to google it, so when I wanted to learn how to get back out there in the dating scene… I followed his advice.

    So I am 52 years young, and divorced for ten years. I am finally feeling like I have a life worth sharing with someone special. When I got divorced I was bent on fixing whatever it was in me that got me into that shit relationship in the first place. I have spent the last 10 years fixing me and falling in love with me. As a matter of fact I have become so comfortable with me, that most of the time I don’t even realize how much time I spend alone with me and myself.

    That is why I started to google/YouTube where to meet men, because I had no idea. I think I have realized that there are two huge mistakes that I make. One, I work from home, when I get off work I walk to my other room/studio and start painting, and when I get bored with that I go to my custom built gaming computer that I built and I either sit down and write or I PC Game… As a vegan I find it hard to eat out, so I don’t go out much. The nearest real town is 35 miles away.

    My first thing I need to change is, *** I need to leave my house***.

    Second thing I need to change is I need to learn how to be more approachable.

    I think the third thing I need to learn is just to relax and be my funny ass self when I am out and about, instead of suddenly getting shy.

    (Oh on the Vegan thing, I am trying to not be so strict on it. Maybe try a little more vegetarian, because my strict vegan diet was scaring off even friends and family. Frankly, I don’t see that much difference from being vegetarian other than I can’t eat out.)

    • Sara

      Reply Reply February 17, 2017

      I find it interesting that a lot of women, myself included really fall in love with themselves after they divorce or leave a relationship where they aren’t really loved by their partner. I also started by Googling and searching YouTube like you. I am on of those people who likes to research everything and am so glad I did.

      PS used to be vegetarian/vegan and it does make it hard to go out. Loosening up will (in a way, unfortunately) make a big difference. With everyone.

  • Vidoolah

    Reply Reply February 8, 2017

    Amazing really helpful 😀

  • Veronica

    Reply Reply February 9, 2017

    Awesome Video!

    I’ve recognized everything I’m doing wrong and looking forward to making changes.

  • Dana

    Reply Reply February 9, 2017

    Such an awesome video… Thank you, thank you, thank you !

  • Hope

    Reply Reply February 9, 2017

    Great video, Adam.Thanks

  • Diane

    Reply Reply February 10, 2017

    Great advice, Adam! I look forward to additional words of wisdom. Thanks! 🙂

  • Paula

    Reply Reply February 10, 2017

    Love the video, thanks for refreshing me, I have been in a 10 yr relationship, so ready to date again, looking forward to the next video!

  • Gaby

    Reply Reply February 11, 2017

    Loved your video

  • Ashley

    Reply Reply February 13, 2017

    loved the video. def need to follow the one where not to give so much into a guy. i tend to give my all and everything into a guy.and i know i need to change that. im currently seeing someone not official but im hoping maybe this will help me land us to be official

  • Randi

    Reply Reply February 16, 2017

    Terrific 1st video. Thanks for all the great info 🙂

  • Ronda

    Reply Reply February 17, 2017

    I 10 to invest too much in a guy. Way too much energy! Very nice video!
    Thank you I look forward to learning more!

  • Sara

    Reply Reply February 17, 2017

    I have always invested waaay too much in the guys I have been attracted to. So the concept of pulling back is some of the best advice I have ever gotten. Also, I have always been more successful or had the potential to earn more than the men I have been with, and for the most part am pretty confident. This caused me to do things that I didn’t even realize were emasculating. Now I know this was probably the biggest problem is my relationships – especially my ex-husband. I am a highly strategic person, so I love the concept of referring to these methods as strategic dating and not games because they aren’t. Nor do I feel like this would be “not being myself,” and actually the complete opposite. I am learning and adapting in order to project and embody who I am in the way I want to be seen and attract what I want. I wish I would have known this ages ago! I have been SO utterly clueless. Thank you!!!

  • Nikita

    Reply Reply February 18, 2017

    Thank you so much, this is an eye opener to help me understand men.

  • Adri

    Reply Reply February 19, 2017

    ¡Gracias!!! Ahora sí podré ligar jajajja.

  • Melissa

    Reply Reply February 20, 2017

    Hello Adam,
    This video had some really good insight, I hope I’m not so far gone with the relationship that caused me to start looking for advice.
    I plan on implementing these strategies in my everyday life. I work in construction and being feminine is not as easy task in this field. However,I belive how you present your self when interacting with people can actually place you in their mind on either a positive note or negative one. I’ll let you know how it goes.

  • Karina

    Reply Reply February 20, 2017

    I absolutely love your video. You are right on it. I can’t wait for the next one. Being there done it. I had let a couple of great quality guys gone because l didn’t follow the values or rules. I moved too fast. You give great advice .

  • Debbie

    Reply Reply February 20, 2017

    Great Video

  • Patty

    Reply Reply February 21, 2017

    Great video!!

  • Robin

    Reply Reply February 25, 2017

    Great video.
    I understand now that I just need to be more fun!

  • Carmon Carnes

    Reply Reply February 27, 2017

    What a powerful video! Think you. You answered a question that has been baffling me forever. This is it; so I know I am a high value woman but why do men get angry when I set reasonable boundaries? I am an excellent communicator, I am kind (maybe too kind), gentle, feminine so why the anger with boundaries? Here’s the answer; (When you set boundaries you are saying “I am a high value woman” and ONLY a high value men will be able to accept them”. O.K. This makes sense because my awesome men friends and family members are very gracious about my boundaries and happy to support me when I set them. What does this tell me about the quality of men I have dated? Hummm? Need more quality men in my life, need a quality man to date! Thanks again for clearing up the mystery.
    Signed,
    Carefuly choosing

  • Janette

    Reply Reply March 2, 2017

    Thank you
    I enjoyed your tips

  • Theresa

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    Great video and great tips. Thanks Adam

  • Daniela Dowie

    Reply Reply March 4, 2017

    I need it you video 4 years ago
    Thanks
    In my town we are having a boom
    Of divorces,
    I really want to work slow to find good friends and when the time
    Is right the best guy
    I will love you to come and all
    My friends will
    Love
    To
    Have a class
    With you

  • Lucie Marcela

    Reply Reply March 7, 2017

    Adam, you are so cute (but none the less maskuline), generous with your advice, charming, funny, intelligent and modest. Love your energy! Kudos to you and all the people in this world, who spread love <3

    Just have to throw in a comment on Ben and Jerry's. Once I dated a guy, I had a magical connection with. On our first date he served me Ben & Jerry's. After he broke up I couldn't even look at Ben & Jerry's ice cream without feeling hurt. Which was so frustrating, because I really wanted to have a Ben & Jerry's ice cream haha. Finally, I can eat Ben & Jerry's again and they have some new great tastes 😉 So have faith, heartache does pass.

    And to all the single ladies. Take advantages of your freedom to pamper yourself, have fun, meet people and do all the things you always dreamed of 🙂

  • Sherrie Freebird

    Reply Reply March 9, 2017

    Good video with some thought provoking ideas. There are many websites for men who advise readers to use women only for sex, don’t get emotionally involved, and dump the woman when he is tired of her. I know these are not the type of men any intelligent woman would put up with, but still, it’s sad that they encourage men to act like this. There is a movement called MGTOW( men going their own way), which I guess is in response to the feminist movement. Why do we have to act like the opposite sex is our enemy? Vive la difference.

  • Venus chacon

    Reply Reply March 9, 2017

    Stop offers don’t want it 52 done with the Bolognese.

  • nono

    Reply Reply March 10, 2017

    Very interesting and informative!

  • Heather

    Reply Reply March 12, 2017

    Loved this video and thank you for sharing! I have need to work on only giving as much as I’m receiving.

  • Karla

    Reply Reply March 16, 2017

    Very informative. Thank you.

  • Lovely

    Reply Reply March 20, 2017

    Amazing video. Thanks

  • rose

    Reply Reply March 21, 2017

    Hi! This is the most awesome video I’ve came across with. Its really going to have much impact cz I use to invest more in the relationship than a man thanks for sharing with us women

  • Rhonda Alfred

    Reply Reply March 29, 2017

    Thanks for this series! I Identify most with principle number two because I always seem to invest more than I get back! I’m going to get started today on putting all these principles into action! thanks again

  • Destiny

    Reply Reply April 2, 2017

    I definitely struggle the most with radiating femininity. Thank you for sharing this video series.

  • Shell

    Reply Reply April 4, 2017

    Hi Adam,

    I cannot tell you how this mind set with your 7 principles has been exactly what I needed to learn. For me it was 1-3…. I have always been investing way too much too soon and always tried to move things too quickly…. although as I got older my ego started stepping in and controlling more of the emotions towards men when seeing someone. I wanted to show those feeling but held back…..which is good this has prevented me from continuing to be needy or appearing needy. When I was younger I was very needy… now I still feel it but try to control it. That said, the investing in men is what is very difficult for me as I’m always over analyzing where the relationship is going, how the guy feels about me, and over analyzing every little step. It is emotionally draining! I need to stop this and love me first. Hard to get out of that mode. Thank you so much for the tools to think about and apply! You are awesome.

  • Destiny

    Reply Reply April 5, 2017

    Video #3 really hit home for me. Thank you, now I know what to look out for.

  • Jacinta

    Reply Reply April 14, 2017

    I love your videos I just started to see them today. Great points. Keep them coming ❤️🙏🏿

  • Jacinta

    Reply Reply April 14, 2017

    Love the videos great 👍🏾 points. I am a first timer👍🏾🙏🏿

  • Tina

    Reply Reply April 20, 2017

    I’m not single but i’m interesting in your videos.Hmmmmm an Africal man is afraid of an intelligent woman.

  • Roselinde Ngozi

    Reply Reply April 20, 2017

    pretty awesome!!!! Really sound wisdom.

  • Lisa

    Reply Reply April 22, 2017

    Amazing advise Adam! I find that I possess all those qualities, except one and that is having an exciting life. I’m 41 years old and consider myself to be an attractive high value women, I have been with 2 men in my life. I have an 18 year old daughter, a 15 year old son, a 5 year old son and a 3 year old daughter, so my life revolves around my children, because I’m a mom first and for most, they will always come first in my life, so how do I make room for a good man to come into my life and how can I lead an exciting life in a mans eyes with children, when most of my free time is spent running errands and appointments?

  • syi

    Reply Reply April 25, 2017

    thanks a lot, thru the video i understnd more . very clear explaination . i think i need to work on rule no 2.. so far ive try rule no 3 , and proven .. glad tht im joining ur mailing n video . 😊

  • Alma

    Reply Reply April 30, 2017

    Oh Adam thank you, can’t thank you enough for sharing with us women this amazing tools… Well appreciated on my behalf, I’m very particular when it comes to trust publicity, sales… All to me was a bunch of bullshit🙈 Sorry!! Until I saw you you’re so real, honest hmm just by showing your face is enough!! I have share it with a good ppl. (Ladies) keep being real that’s what really had got me to get your tools. I’m pretty much close of how you describe a woman to behave, but I’m not dating. I’ll follow places to go & meet people like you said. lma

  • Janet

    Reply Reply May 2, 2017

    Good than for sharing your knowledge Adam

  • Dana

    Reply Reply May 26, 2017

    GREAT VIDEO

  • soung

    Reply Reply May 27, 2017

    Thank you! You are amazing man!!!….

  • soung

    Reply Reply May 27, 2017

    Thank you! You are amazing man!!!!…..

  • Brenda Bills

    Reply Reply May 29, 2017

    I love this video….

  • Sana

    Reply Reply May 31, 2017

    Hallo thanks a lot for Posteing us nice videos

  • Dori

    Reply Reply June 2, 2017

    How do I get to see the other 3 videos?

  • Namrata

    Reply Reply June 20, 2017

    I loved this video!!! ❤❤ I have been struggling with this since many years but didn’t find any solution. And then I saw your Channel. Thank you for the 7 principles of emotionally attracting men. And the point which I have to focus is believing in myself. Thinking that there is a guy who is going to get attracted to me, date me. I’m waiting for the next video!

  • Rebekah

    Reply Reply July 7, 2017

    Great info! Thanks!

  • jen

    Reply Reply July 9, 2017

    great video made me analyze stuff about myself 😊

  • Dani

    Reply Reply August 13, 2017

    The vid won’t play for me.

  • Miriam

    Reply Reply August 14, 2017

    You’re a nice-looking, warm & intelligent guy! I can’t understand why any normal, well-adjusted woman would reject you.

  • Dana

    Reply Reply August 16, 2017

    Thank you! Your enthusiasm is contagious

  • Melinda Hancock

    Reply Reply August 17, 2017

    Thanks for the video! I’ve learned some new things I need to work on. #3 is a new strategy I will definitely put to use. I do really need to work on #7 too. I tend to be an imposing figure at 6′ , and I’m no petite flower either. I usually give people space to get adjusted so I don’t intimidate them. It’s not working. Wish me luck!

  • Joni

    Reply Reply August 26, 2017

    Hi Adam,

    Thanks for the great advice and support. Interestingly enough, the advice for dating also sounds a lot like the advice you get for building a career too! The best time to find a job is when you have one and the best time to find a man is when you have a life you enjoy without a man. Know your worth and what you bring to the table, don’t undersell your self and be aware of how much you are investing and the roi on the relationship.Solid advice for boyfriends, girlfriends, family and careers.

  • Linda

    Reply Reply August 29, 2017

    Number one seems to be an interesting point that I don’t understand. I’m over 60 and the men I meet when they find out my independence and how much I’ve done and how I’m proactive in my life and they seem intimidated by that. I’ve actually had one guy say that he doesn’t know if you can please me because I’m pretty good at pleasing myself. And then I get the opposite where guys love my independence because now they don’t have to do anything to please me. I don’t know if this is an age thing if older men are just different. So the number one thing is my biggest concern out of all that you listed on your video. I can check all the rest on that list.
    Please let me know what your thoughts are. I am very grateful and content in my life. I would love to find ‘The man’ that I can enjoy the rest of my life with. Linda

  • Tatiana

    Reply Reply September 7, 2017

    I literally love every word said! I’ve never ever realized that there is something more than physical attraction and chemistry between a woman and a man… and now! it’s just like a bomb!!! quite different approach.
    I’m really lucky to find your videos on YouTube and now i’m your fan, Adam!
    Many thanks for giving me a motivation to become a high value woman ~ ^^

  • Vicky

    Reply Reply September 17, 2017

    Thank you so much for sharing all this amazing information and advices with us!!! I definitely need to work on the first 3 tips!!! I love your advice about being a high value woman 😀 You are an excellent coach i feel so motivated right now!!! 😀 Thanks!

  • Kahtin nash

    Reply Reply September 25, 2017

    Adam thank u so much.u r such a convincing guy.I like to see ur tapes. I shall rewards û later for ur work.I dont like to sweet talk i m a nice nature
    person have high values in myself , job n people I date n friends that I want to be with.I just want to have nice friends n I m humble n also creative or
    can sell ideas …for example u r from Mcdonal Douglas aviation company u want to sell commercial airplane I have natural talent to advise salesmanager how n what to do.I did that n Singapore Airlines bought 15 fleets of aircrafts.talk to u more next time.Many thanks!
    . Kahtin

  • Michelle

    Reply Reply October 8, 2017

    Adam, Thank you for all your inspiring videos. I will use your 7 step. Now I just need to get out there an date????
    Thank you,
    Michelle,

  • Billie

    Reply Reply October 10, 2017

    Thank you, thank you, thank you. I am pretty sure I need all of these, but especially 2, 4, 5, & 6.

  • Lanie

    Reply Reply October 27, 2017

    You communicate such joy in these videos. Thanks for all of this; it does offer hope and that’s one of the most important things in finding that one special guy, belief! Looking forward to more! Very sweet, Adam!

    My other website: https://lanielight.bandcamp.com

  • Linda

    Reply Reply November 8, 2017

    I loved the video, you are a great speaker and motivator. I really liked #5 on valuing myself. I am a nurse and I am always a giver and putting everyone else in front of me. If I truly want to be there for a man I need to value myself first so I can be a better person for him.

  • brenda block

    Reply Reply November 12, 2017

    loved the video thanks so much

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